Thanks Neetu. Hope we can all make this blog come alive again with our stories and experiences with the central theme of oiling, massages, hair care and much more :)
I had to cut my hair shorter than I hoped. A few months ago, a friend invited me over to her house for the weekend. There, we decided to step out to a pub. Her friend offered to iron my hair and did a poor job of it and burnt most of my hair. I had to cut a lot of it off because the texture was absolutely ruined. It's growing back slowly.
Oh God! So sorry to hear about this. Nothing worse than losing precious hair like that, which you have grown with so much love. You must have felt miserable. Hope your maid is oiling regularly. Use only pure oils like coconut and castor to grow the hair back. I am sure in a year's time you will be happy with the length again. Go for just half inch trims every 4 months or so. So what kind of styles are you doing now? Use a clutch also for some variation, along with the evergreen ponytail. You can leave your hair half open with the clutch and it looks really neat with nicely oiled hair.
Yes, Pooja. It was quite depressing. That's why I stopped commenting. The length is still alright. It's about mid back now. But I feel like I lost a lot of thickness.
I can definitely understand the feeling. Keep oiling regularly with whichever pure oil suits you hair the best and shampoo not more than twice a week, unless you go out in dusty conditions. The thickness and lustre will definitely come back on the new hair growing from the roots. Hang in there, babe! Good old oiling will definitely give you everything your hair wants and needs :)
Hello pooja yes i do take double french braid after she is back from school , for class or in general it does look bit stylish and for younger i use hairband less due to hair damage! so i use 1 clip each side to hold hair in place and they are already oiled so they stay very neat.
Yes Ami, hairband can damage the hair if kids keep pulling it off and putting it back. I am sure she must be looking cute with coloured clips on each side. Any hair style with oiled hair looks very neat. This Friday why don’t you and your elder daughter both do oiling and do single French braid on each other’s hair.
Hi everyone. Just wanted to share that I recently started using forest essentials bhringraj oil. It’s quire expensive, but forest essentials is a premium Indian brand with very pure ingredients. This oil has coconut and sesame as a base with lots of Ayurvedic ingredients. I am seeing very good results with it. I also love the way the texture of the oil. Not to think and it just steps into my hair so warmly. It’s very well distributed in no time and I love the result where my hair gets shiny and smooth from root to tip so evenly. The fragrance is also natural and soothing. I would highly recommend it to all. Specially to Rahul as a premium product for massages to clients at home and the salon.
Hi everyone,our office is having a cricket tournament next weekend and I made it to one of the teams. I'm now worried that a day of running around and the dirt and the dust is going to ruin my hair.
Neetu, I agree that's a big pain for hair. Make sure you don't leave your hair open. It would be best to make a nice tight braid after oiling and then also wear a cap to cover your scalp from getting dusty. Please use clips or bobby pins to hold your top hair together inside the cap. The braid can come out of the cap hole at the back. The oiling will keep you head really cool and I am sure the nice shiny braid will look really nice. Will protect your hair as best as possible. When your inside the dressing room, you can remove your cap and flaunt your braid. It will be a really neat style with your hair pinned up nicely and the tight shiny braid :-)
Pooja, cap and braided hair is a good idea. Running around with braided hair may be distracting. I'm thinking I'll wear the cap and put the hair through the hole. But instead of just a braid, I'll secure the hair into a bun. What do you think?
I thought the braid would have looked cute and neat, specially while running around :) A nice coloured band to secure the end of the shiny braid would be nice. If you just don’t like that the go for the braided bun. I just think buns are for more formal occasions whereas the good old oiled hair braid is neat and casual. Either ways your hair will remain protected.
Hello Pooja and Neetu, Didn't realize new page was put up and comments being posted. Silly of me. Very recently before washing hair my mother makes the maid apply Patanjali Aloe Vera gel on my scalp. One of.her friends recommended it to her and said it will make hair smooth and shiny. Now even my.mother is getting knowledgeable about different hair products and trying it on me. and yes I did put gajra in hair during Diwali. My mother a day before came and told me very nicely she would like to see flowers in my long choti. She said as I have long hair why not decorate it nicely like everyone else as all the ladies will have gajra in their oiled hair. So I said yes to her as she made me bit emotional. So next day everyone was dressed in colorful saris and hair all heaviled oiled with long chotis and lot of gajras in hair. My mother gave me a nice new red Kurta with white pants to wear. After I got ready my mother took me by hand and made me sit in front of maid and her friend. My hair was neatly parted and both of them oiled each side with warm coconut oil. Soon they tied a long tight choti and coated it with castor oil. Then maid got a couple of bobby pins and pinned gajra on either side so the gajra rests on my shoulders. After wards she told me to get up and her friend wrapped a long around my choti. Everybody were happy to see with hair all decorated. Then we all.left for temple where lots of ladies complimented my hair. What do you both think Pooja and Neetu. ?
Hello Neetu and Pooja, Aloe Vera is good. Just apply it the day you wash your hair. Leave it for a hour or so before washing. My hair has become more soft after using it. That day when I had flowers in hair, some girls told my mother that with my hair decorated like that I should have worn a sari or salwar suit. Next day my mother told me.about it and also talking to Shanti and Geeta about it. All three of them like the idea and told me to try it soon. Soon after I was called for my daily oiling. As I entered the kitchen my mom was just getting off the phone and her hair tied in oiled juda with flowers wrapped around it. I sat in the middle as usual and oiling started. As oiling was done my mother said she was talking to her friend who is a tailor and will be coming to measure me for Salwar suit and for sari I will come with them all to buy from store. I got a bit angry and my mother said since I am only male, I should listen to the ladies and have some fun. Both he maids suggested yellow Salwar suit and green sari. The maids oiled my hair heavily and made a tight bun. Then coated the bun with jasmine coconut oil and wrapped flower around it. I asked why flowers they said now this the way to decorate hair. I don't know what to do. Later in evening my mother was watching TV so I told her frankly I don' likethis dress wearing and flowers in hair. She made me sit in her lap and said not to worry and do it for her. Then she opened my bun and told the maid to get comb and oil bootle. she then combed my hair and oiled my hair again. Please advise Neetu and Pooja
Hi Sumit, Your mother is really fond of you and takes such good care of your hair. I really like the sound of your mother telling the maid to get a comb and oil bottle and then making you sit in her lap and combing and oiling your hair all over again. Must have felt so loving and good. I think you should do it just for her. And salwar suit is not too different from kurta pajama so I am sure you will be comfy in that. And with long oiled hair it will look good too. You should wear bangles and earrings to complete the look too.
Hello Pooja, Nice to hear from and thank you for advice. I agree my mother loves taking good care of our hair. As she doesn't oil my hair as often as the maids do, she spends more time just combing and then oiling. She loves combing my hair with long gentle strokes and always complement it. She always says how lucky I am as group of ladies take care of my hair. I am lucky to have her. On Saturday I had washed my hair and my mother was going to market. Soon I heard the maid calling me so I went to kitchen where both the maids had their hair heavily oiled in a loose bun around their shoulders with both having a comb in the hair. They made me sit and opened my hair. Geeta was combing my hair while Malti was warming coconut oil and then adding castor oil to it. Geeta said she would do champi today. She pulled my hair a bit so I looked up and poured oil in the middle parting. then started tapping the oil. While we were doing small talk I mentioned to them it was my mother's birthday next Saturday. Both quickly suggested I should wear Salwar suit as present. They both massaged oil nicely and heavily oiled my hair. I then said yes and they were very happy and said they would but Salwar suit. Soon they tied a tight choti and coated it with jasmine oil. What is your advice Pooja ? They oiled my hair so nicely that I felt relaxed and said yes.
A nice oil massage does that to you Sumit. When someone is putting warm oil in your hair and massaging it, the feeling is so good that they can make you agree to anything :) I am sure the salwar suit will look really nice on you, specially with the perfectly oiled long choti of yours. Get them to do a nice fishtail or khajoori choti for you. Please also put kajal and bindi to complete the traditional look with nice jhumki earrings and bangles. Your mother will be so pleased and it will be a perfect birthday gift for her. I am sure that at the end of the day, she will lovingly put oil for you again and enjoy combing your hair for you as you sit in front of her in a salwar. Have fun!
Hi everyone....no messages from anyone on the blog. It’s been totally idle. Neetu how did the cricket manage go? Did your braided look turn out ok? Hope your hair didn’t get dirty and you got some complements. Sumit how was your mother’s birthday? Did she get surprised and how did you look? Rahul you are not writing at all. Still waiting for your descriptions of the massages you are doing nowadays. You were so active. Ami how is your daughters oiling routines going. Any new styles? Priya what about you? How is your Sikh friend and you? Have you been oiling each other’s hair?
Hello Pooja, On Saturday morning my mother got ready to go to temple as it was her Birthday. She had a new Saree and hair nicely oiled and style in a bun. She asked me to come with her but I made an excuse as for her surprise. I was drying my hair as Shanti walked in holding a large comb and bottle of Nihar Vatika Jasmine Coconut oil. She told me to sit on edge on bed while she stood behind me. She dried my hair and then started combing it. She combed until my hair was all straight. She cleared my middle parting and poured right oil right on it. Then kept pouring on different parts of head. Then she started massaging oil into head. As she had big hand her massage is a bit rough but soothing. She was doing champi and pressing hair with her palm. Then oiling spread to middle and end part of hair with her pouring and massaging hair. I asked her if she could do khajuri choti today. She said today all of us will do long choti with flowers. But next day she will do it for me. Soon she was combing my heavily oiled hair and made a nice oily bun. Soon the maids entered my room both wearing bright color saris and hair all oiled in a tight choti. One of them had a yellow Salwar suit in hand and a paper bag. Shanti said now she will get ready and bring gajra for everyone. Malti then said they will help me put Salwar suit and style my hair like theirs. So first I wore the pant and they helped me with the suit. It was a bit tight and bright yellow. They took dupatta and pinned it to my shoulder so it not keep falling. Then Malti bought a stool in middle of room and made me sit . She open my bun and combed it while holding hair in other hand. Shanti came in front and cleaned my eyes with towel as she was apply kaajal. Malti smelled my hair and combed it very straight. She took some castor oil and massaged it on my scalp. Then she made a long choti just like hers. Then coated choti with some jasmine oil. My choti was tight and heavily oily. Shanti had applied kaajal and took out bindi, bangles and yellow pins from paper bag. She put bindi first then put 5 bangles each hand. Then put three pin on each side of head to make my hair more tight. Ten mins after Shanti came wearing a new bright sari and packets of gajra in hand. Her choti was the longest and thickest and heavily oiled smelling of coconut oil. Then all three started putting gajra on each other. All three looked so nice after flowers in hair. Then all three came and stood around me and put the remaining gajras on me. Part of the gajra was nicely arranged on my shoulders on the dupatta. Then all three took me in front of mirror and told me to look. I was surprised to see myself it was as if a new me.
Soon after doorbell rang and I was told to wait in room while all three went out. After like 10 mins Shanti and Malti came and both held my hands and took me to living room. My mother was there with Shanti standing behind her and her hands over mother eyes. When she opened her eyes my mother just stood still. She hugged me and almost had tears in her eyes. She complimented my look and said best birthday gift ever. Soon it was lunchtime so the maids made me serve food to my mother. Then we all sat down in living room and I sat on mother lap and she lovingly played with my oiled choti. Soon she went to room for rest. And then Shanti made me sit on her lap and she adjusted the flowers and pins in hair. She bought her thick choti over my shoulder and said I will comb and oil her hair next day. Soon Mother joined us and I again served tea to her and then later dinner. Then later after dinner watching TV. My mother told maid to take flowers off and open my hair and warm a cup of coconut oil. Soon Mother oiled my hair again and massaged whole cup in hair. She combed my hair after in gentle strokes. She said now we have to get my set of jewellery and extra suits and her friend is coming for measurement. Please advise anything more I should do. Sorry for writing late. Sunday is another story.
Hello everyone, Shilpa here. I had posted before regarding my forceful and very heavy hair oilings from my elder sister. I am still facing the same situation, but the only difference is that I just accept and remain quiet because otherwise my sister will scold me and even my mom will scold me. Then my sister will apply even more oil on my hair as punishment. By the way, my sis name is Saanvi. My sis hair is butt length while mine goes below butt (between butt and knees). Saanvi loves very heavy hair oiling and keeps her hair always very heavily oiled. M mom gave my sis full authority on me, so my sis does whatever she wants, without even asking my mom before. Today, after I woke up, Saanvi told me to get ready quickly as we will go out for shopping. My hair was very heavily oiled from yesterday and hers of course will be heavily oiled. So I had breakfast and went for shower. After shower, I was heading to my room but Saanvi called me. She was outside on the terrace. I knew what to expect already and to trick her in applying less oil, I put some water on my hair to make it look wet. I thought that when I go out it will dry with the sun and it will not look too much oily. So I went to her and there she was standing with her hair loose and already heavily oiled. Her hair was shining in the sun. She told me to apply some oil on her hair and I did not question and obeyed. She sat down on lower step and me on higher step and asked her if I need to comb. She said no, I did combing already. So just apply oil and I will tie my hair. So I obeyed and she handed me the coconut oil bottle (500 ml). I started pouring the oil little by little and massaging. I poured several times all over the head while massaging but Saanvi was annoyed and told me do proper oiling and grabbed the bottle from me. She said just massage and I will pour and she started pouring huge amount of oil on her head by squeezing the bottle. I was thinking to myself, my God so much oil and we are going out and started getting worried. Then she handed me the bottle and told me to do the same on her length and I obliged and poured a lot of oil as she wanted. Then I combed her hair and she took the comb from me and combed again and made a bun. There was so much and her hair was shining so much in the sun. Oil was dripping from the comb and little from the bun and her neck and face was oily. She told me come sit in front now... continued next post
**show your sister this post** Coming from a pharmacist, hair oiling is actually bad and actually causes more damage to the hair, especially if done for a prolonged period of time. Oil allows more bacteria and dirt to get into the hair which eventually clogs the hair follicle and leads to potential hair loss and various scalp infections such as acne and dermatitis. hair must be washed with shampoo on regular basis to keep the hair clean and healthy. this has happened to my patients and my recommendation to them significantly helped them.
going outside with hair in oiled condition and leaving it on for many days without washing it is the worst thing you can do to it, especially if you live in india
I remained quiet and sit in front of her and hoping that she will not apply a lot of oil since I had put water on my hair and it looked wet already. My hair was in a messy braided bun and she removed my hair clip and let my braid down. She then opened my braid and started combing the length to remove knots. She was very angry as my hair was tangled from sleeping and she did a rough combing. After combing the length, she started combing from forehead and she put her hand on top of my head. I was getting very scared that she finds out I have put water and to my bad luck, she did notice. She slapped my back. With a loud voice she started telling me, how can your hair be wet? Did you wash your hair or what? I knew I was caught, and I told her that I didn't wash but while opening the shower, some water got on my hair and that's why. She didn't say anything and ordered me to give the bottle. I gave her the bottle and my ordeal started. I closed my eyes in fear and soon I could feel huge amount of oil being poured... I could hear the oil gushing out from the bottle as she was squeezing with full force. She poured again and again and I felt she massaged very lightly. Then she bent my head down and started pouring at the back of my head and rubbing roughly. Then it came to the length. She held my pony and started pouring so much oil that I could feel my hair getting heavier. When she let go of the pony, I could feel my hair sticking to my nape and on my back. I handed her the comb over my shoulder but she did not even pay attention and soon again I could hear squeezing again and she was pouring again on top of my head and tapping. There was so much oil that you could hear chup chup sound. And she took comb from my hand now and started combing. Oil was dripping from my forehead but I didn't say anything. She combed my hair and made a very tight braid and I could feel the oil flowing while make the braid. Then she rolled the braid in a bun and secured it. She took comb again and combed the front to ensure that the hair was all combed and pulled back. She told me go and get ready now. I went to my room and had a look in the mirror and my hair had so much oil that it was still dripping. My face and neck completely oily, my top stained with oil around neck and back. I took a towel and wiped off the excess oil from my face and neck but did not take the risk of wiping my hair. When I came out of the room, my sister was ready and told me let's go quicky or we will be late. We were standing outside waiting for the rickshaw to come and I could feel the oil still dripping a little on my nape and I kept wiping. Thankfully before reaching shopping mall, the oiling had a stopped but still so many people were looking at us. We just came back home and sister is now watching tv. Her hair is open right now and she keeps running her hands in the hair and taps her head with the hand on top. My hair is still in the same braided bun.
i wonder what your sister would do to me. my hair has not touched oil for over 10 years and the only thing i do is shampoo and flat iron it everyday. How often do you shampoo your hair? that literally sounds like a pain in the ass that you are forced to wear that much oil everyday. i would suggest cutting your hair around your shoulders to lighten things for yourself
you should totally take a pair of scissors and cut your hair shoulder length to lighten it. i also recommend using selsun blue shampoo everyday to get rid of any build up or dirt. It works pretty good for me
Hii, I am Karan , 28 years old , staying in Ahmadabad Gujarat. I would like to share my childhood story here in this blog.
So, I hated oiling eversince my started oiling my hair and in my family my mom used to make hair oil at home and trust me it smells terrific, but I had no other option but to sit in front of her and allow her to oil my hair properly and as a six years old kid I can't do anything, and in this oiling matter she was very strict with me.And she oils my hair so heavily and make this chup chup sound continuosly till she finishes oiling.She oils my hair every morning but she used to wash my hair only twice in the week.so this schedule went on till I was 10 years old. And when I entered fifth standard ,our school was not that strict as my mother but oiling hair was compulsory,not heavily but clean oiled look was required. My school timings were 11am to 5pm.and I had a tution from 8am to 10am for which I have to go to tution teachers place. So coz of this schedule my mom used to get busy with my tiffins n all coz I have to leave my house at 7.45 am. So she didn't get time to oil my hair.So my mom informed my tution teacher whose name was twinkle abt my oiling and she also told her abt how I hated oiling and she had to do a forceful oiling .
So this was my 1st day at tution. And for me her first imoreimpres were very strict teacher and during the 2 hrs of tutions I already had a 3-4 slaps on my cheeks which were so painful. We were 6 students (4boys and 2girls).but she used slap me in front of everyone and embarassed me.when the tution got over she asked to leave other students and told me sit in balcony. I said ok mam and went there and within 2 mins she came with vatika oil bottle and comb . And I knew what she going to do with me so I just told,mam pls I don't wanna oil my hair as it doesn't look good. As soon as she heard this she just grabbed my medium length hair from centre and made me sit in between her legs and she grabbed me that tightly I couldn't utter a word , and started crying as this was my first day and have not expected this.and this coz of I cryed she bend my head and slapped me on my back and I immediately stopped crying. Than she started combing my dry mid length hair gently.and she parted my hair in middle with comb and started pouring oil directly from the bottle to centre of my parting and she was just pouring and pouring for 1st 15seconds and I can feel oil all over my head and again I told mam, pls pls don't put too much oil, she just made me quiet by saying I know how and how much too apply so keep quiet and sit straight. so for 1st ten mins she was just pouring oil in to my head parting by parting and making that chup chup sounds. After oiling and massaging she combed my hair with right parting and than I looked in to the mirror and she made me look so champion that I thought how can I go to school with this look,as she had used more quantity of oil even girls required lesser oil than oil in my hair.But I have to go to school with this look and manage myself as it bacame everyday regime for me.
And friends I have many more stories like this of mine , how I used to get forceful oiling from my teacher
That was all abt my childhood and things changed now for me and now I love champi more than anyone else, Just you need is best person to do it. When your lovedone applies hot oil in your hair with those soft hands that's the best felling in the world..Hope things changes for you just as mine ..
I loved reading your story , can you share more abt your hair oiling?
Till that time , read this small story..
As my tution got over , I just asked mam , can I go with my friends today early, as I don't wanted to oil my hair that day, and she exactly told me wait Get your hair oiled first. And I told no mam I don't wanna get oiled and I tried going with my friends, and she saw it and pulled me back grabbing my shirt , and she gave me a slaaaap across my cheeks and made me sit infront of my friends. And on this day she had oiled my hair in anger and oiled my hair 15 mins continuosly and it was continuous pouring of oil in my hair and rubbing. And she doesn't misses to do those chup chup sounds and that was embarassing for me infront of my friends.and than she combed my hair in a champu hair style And after making me complete champu , she asked me to go .my friends were saying me my cheeks were red for 2 hrs after that banged slap . And whenever my school friends meets they remember this incident and laugh a lot
i am anurag and I am married.i live in nagpur.i told my wife that ,i would oil her hair,but i didn't know she didn't like hair oiling.i tried her convincing so many times that it's good for hair,but she wasn't listening to me. She only oiled her hair till 10th grade,and after that only on Saturdays,and after she totally stopped hair oiling. Her hair had become very dry. After telling her so many times I was annoyed. The next I bought 5-6 bottles of parachute hair oil of 50 ml and 1 bottle of 150ml. It was 9 pm .I told her to sit on chair and I would oil her hair. She was surprised and she refused. I told hair if she doesn't sit then I would pour entire bottle of 150 ml of parachute oil on her hair. She understood that I was annoyed but and sat on the chair quietly. then I started combing her hair for 5 minutes. then I opened the 50 ml oil bottle and started pouring oil on her hair and started massaging her head. As soon as I poured oil on head she started to complain and told me stop.i said nothing. Then I poured more and more oil and started massaging .I told her to look down I wanted to oil the hair on back of the head. But she refused. Then I started pouring more oil on the top of her head . She understood that I would keep on pouring oil so she finally gave in and looked down. Then a poured a lot of oil on her back head and started spreading the oil. After pouring oil all over her head I started pouring oil all over her hair length. I emptied the full bottle of 50ml . I thought it wasn't enough for her waist lenght hair. I opened the 2nd bottle of parachute oil of 50 ml. Then she started requesting me to stop but I didn't listen. I started pouring oil over hair again especially on the ends , the second bottle was also about to finish. A little oil was remaining so I poured it on her head . After emptying 2 bottles I thought it was enough. Then I started massaging her head for next 30 min . After about 45 min of hair oiling session, after combing her hair ,i braided her hair in a single braid. Her hair very looking very healthy and shiny in oil. I told her to get used to this routine. She was angry complained that she would not do it again. As she was not used to hair oiling I told that I would oil her hair only 3 time in a week. She wasnt happy with it. I told her that I would only use 1 bottle. She was still upset with it but she stopped complaining. I told her this would continue for next 2 months and after 2 months, I would oil her hair daily. Next day, I bought more bottles of 50 ml of parachute oil like 10 or 12 cause I already had 4 bottles of 50 ml remaining and 1 big 150ml bootle. I didn't oil her hair that day cause I promised her that I would oil her hair alternate days Then the next day when I asked her to come for hair oiling she stared requesting to not oil too much. She didnt say don't oil my hair as she knew I wasn't going to listen so she asked me to use less oil. I ensured her that I will use only 1 bottle. I combed her hair gently for 2-3 min . I opened the oil bottle and started pouring oil on her head , then on lengths of her hair . Finally after emptying the bottle I started massaging for 30 min . After combing her hair I braided her hair in a single braid. This continued on for next 1 month She washed her hair everyday in the morning when she was showering. I was okay with it. I was happy that she at least oils her hair. After 1 month I started oiling her hair lightly after she had taken her shower every day. She complain at first but she got used to it. So the routine was heavy oiling alternate days and light oiling everyday. I used different bottle of 190 ml of parachute oil which would last for many days. I used a different bottle as I didn't want to disturb nights heavy oiling routine by using oil from 50 ml bottle. After 3-4 months I started oiling her hair heavily at night daily. The quality of her hair has improved very much. Now I think even she enjoys getting her hair oiled as massages.
Hi everyone Anurag here again Earlier in winter my wife put a condition on me to heat the oil before pouring it on her head. At the that time I did not understand why so I accepted the condition. It didn't occur to me that time that parachute oil freezes in winter So one such day I called her for her regular hair oiling session I combed her hair for like 4-5 min . Finally when I opened the parachute oil bottle and tried to pour oil on head the wasn't coming out. As I wasn't allowed the heat the oil I tried squeezing the bottle hard but oil wasn't coming out. So I squeezed so hard the too much oil in solid creamy form fell over her hair. It was easier for me to apply her oil in solid and it seemed to that she enjoyed her hair getting oiled too. So sometimes so keeps the bottle in freezer to turn oil I to solid creamy form, which was easier for me to apply. But I told her, warm oil will be better for her hair. I had no problem with the oil being in solid. I was happy as long as her hair were heavily oiled with parachute hair oil and were shiny . So sometimes I heated the oil before pouring it on head and sometimes it was in solid form.May the oil be in solid or warm, I made sure to at least empty 1 bottle of parachute oil of 50 ml on her hair. would not oil her hair on Saturday but on Sunday I double the amount of hair oil that is 100ml . Once she herself told me to oil her hair on Saturday too ! And more she told me to double the amount of oil on Saturday too. Hearing this from her made me very happy. Sometimes when she finds regular oiling session enjoyable she tells me to use 2 bottles instead of 1 . This is the 8th month of her hair oiling session
Ankita here, I would like to share my hair oiling experiences. Current I am a engineer student.
Now, hair oiling was compulsory in my house. I have a sister who is 3 yrs older than me. She used to oil my hair heavily with parachute oil everyday. I studied in all girls school.the hair regarding hair were very strict. Hair oiling was compulsory in schools , no matter how long or short ur hair is everyone had to oil their hair heavily. Some of the rules are : You are not allowed to leave your hair open . Only if your hair above shoulder then u can leave ur hair open. If ur hairlength is even 1 cm below shoulder then u have to tie ur hair in a pony tail. If ur hair length varies from shoulder length to mid-back then u can either keep them in a pony tail and briad them. If ur hair length varies from mid-back to waist length or more then u have to compulsory braid them. Girls from 5th standard to 8th standard were not allowed single pony or single braid. They have to make 2 pony or 2 briading from middle part . Only girls of 9th and 10th standard we're allowed tie thier hair single braid or ponytail
Hi Ankita here again I remember one day, when I was in 9th standard, I was in a hurry reach school, and I had not oiled my hair. I braid my hair in a single plait In the first period, the class teacher checks whether everyone has oiled their hair. She quickly noticed my dry hair. She gave students some questions to solve and told me to come in staff room with her. There are many parachute oil bottle in staff rooms kept for students who do not oil their hair. There were many 50 ml and 100 or 110 ml bottles in staff room . Tecahers were allowed to maximum of 50 ml oil on girls till 8th grade and can use 100 or 110 ml on girls if 9th and 10th grade . They generally empty full bottle on hair as a punishment. In my case , as I was in 9 th grade ,she took the big oil bottle. I started praying that she wouldn't use all of the oil.She told me sit on the floor between her legs and she sat on a chair. She unbraided my hair and took out a wide toothed comb from the cupboard and started combing my hair roughly and did a middle partition. She opened the cap of big bottle. I started requesting her to not use too much oil. She started pouring the oil on the top of my head at the middle partition she made and started pouring oil of abt 20 seconds, and atarted spreading it . She told me lean on right side so she could pour oil on the sides of my hair here also she poured oil abt 20 seconds, and the same for other side side of my head. She told me to look down ,I obeyed. She started pouring enormous amount of oil on the back head. She poured oil for spreaded it for more than 30sec. I could feel my head getting heavier.
I was literally crying. I apologized for not oiling hair and requested her to stop. But she said I wouldn't learn from if wasn't given punishment. Oil had started dripping from my hair. Then she held my hair in one hand and the oil bottle in another,and she started pouring oil on the lengths of my hair. She did this for more than 40 seconds and started rubbing my hair. Then she the remaining oil on hair and head randomly. She emtied a full bottle of 100 ml or parachute coconut oil on my hair. I was just stunned. After emptying the bottle she kept it aside and started massaging my head for 10 min. Oil was dripping from my hair. Then she braided my heavily oiled hair tightly, and told me to go back to my class solve the questions. Oil was dripping from my hair for about 2 periods ie 1 hr
Hi Ankita here , ..My sister and parents were shocked to see so much oil on my hair. I was not allowed to wash hair after coming cause of the strict hair oiling rules
The same things happened again after 1 month . I had oiled my hair but teacher said it was not enough so she again emptied a 100ml parachute oil bottle on already oiled hair
From that onwards I always make sure to empty a full 50ml parachute oil bottle on hair before going out the house. My sis oil my hair every morning after shower with parachute oil . And I tell her to empty the full 50 ml bottle on my hair no matter how oily my hair looks. It's at least better than getting 100 ml bottle emptied
Hi everyone, I am vaishnavi, i am studying in college In 11th grade
This is about when I was in 7th grade, i was 13. I hated hair oiling. I was in a all girls school. There was a rule in our school that everyone must oil their hair. My mom always insisted me to oil my hair. But I never oiled my hair and neither did some of my friends. Even the schools authorities wouldn't care whether we oil our hair or not.
My school was reopening on 15th June and my aunt had come to stay at our house at 13th June for 2 months. It was 13th June. There were still 2 days for school to reopen. My aunt arrived in the afternoon at around 12. She is very strict about hair oiling. She noticed that I hadn't oiled my hair. So she asked my mom why wasnt my hair oiled. My mom replied that I didn't like oiling my hair. Then aunt that she would look after my hair oiling . Aunt told me that I will have to oil my everyday,she she would personally oil my hair everyday. I thought she wasn't serious.
Aunt , after freshening took a bottle of vatika coconut oil and a wide toothed comb and enter my room. Vatika was the only oil present in the house. More than half of the 100 ml bottle was empty. The was less than ¼ oil in the bottle. She told me to come in the living room for getting my hair oiled. I said no to her . I told her I didn't like hair oiling . She told me again but my response was no. She went in the living room kept the oil bottle and comb on the table , and come in my room ,grabbed my hair and dragged me in the living room. Mom said nothing to her. She pulled my hair so hard that many hair broke . She showed me my broken hair and told me this is what happens when I don't oil hair. She sat on a chair , and made me sit between her legs. Before I could say anything she started combing my . I told her to not oil my hair, but she ignored me. She continued combing my waist length hair. Before I knew she started pouring oil on my head. I was surprised. She pulled to right by pulling my hair to oil sides of my head . She poured oil oil on the back of my head and then on the long hair. Then put the bottle aside and began to rub my rub and gave be me a massage . There was still oil remaining in the bottle. After she was done with oiling my hair, started braid my hair . While she was braiding , I told her not oil my hair again. She stopped braiding my hair and poured the remaining oil on my head finishing the full bottle. Then she again massaged my head , braid my hair in a single braid and told me to get up. She told me that she had to use this oil as this was the only oil available , her favorite was parachute coconut hair oil. She told me to get used to this hair oiling. During the hair oiling , mom was in the bedroom. I went to mom showing her my oiled hair. I thought she would tell Aunt to not do it again , but instead she said the oiled hair looked good on me and I should do it every day Then in the evening, mom and aunt went shopping . After coming home aunt showed me 20 bottles of parachute coconut hair oil. She told me that she would use 1 bottle per day . The bottles were of 30ml or 50 ml. I absolutely hated it.
Then the newn day after taking shower and washing my hair aunt called me to get me my hair oiled . But I told her I didn't like getting hair oiling . She again grabbed my hair like the day before and dragged me to my bedroom. I requested her that if she was going to oil my then use a different one cause parachute coconut oil is very sticky and I didn't like it's smell. She replied that parachute oil is best for my hair. So I requested her to at least use less oil. Then she said that she would not use more than 1 bottle of oil per day. So I had no option but to obey what she says. I sat between her legs without complaining. She began combing my hair. She did it for 5 min. I knew that my hair we're going to be covered in oil. So I sat quietly. She then began pouring oil all over my head. As I was quiet , she was moving head gently to oil all over my head. Then she began pouring out on the end if my hair and middle part of the hair. A little oil was remaining which she poured on my head. The she started massaging my head and rubbing my hair. After abt 40 min of hair oiling and massaging she braided my hair in a single braid. Oil was dripping from my hair, and if I said anything about it, I knew she would pour another bottle of oil on my hair. She told me that I wasn't allowed to open my hair, and this should always be my hair style at home. I said ok. I knew she would oil my every single day. I was worried that she would oil my hair while going to school tomorrow. Next after showering and washing my hair, aunt called me. As I had feared, She was calling me to get my hair oiled. Today was my first day of school of 7th grade. I pleaded aunt to use less oil, but she didn't listen and used the full bottle. I had no option but to go to school with hair oiled. My friends were surprised to see me getting my hair oiled heavily. The class teacher made the rules clear about hair oiling. She said that strictness regarding hair oiling was increased. She told us that if any one was found with out hair oil their hair would be oiled by class teacher heavily. So even if my aunt stopped hair oiling which she wouldnt, I had to apply hair oil . The teacher also said that everyone had to use only parachute coconut oil.
Hi Vaishnavi here , On the second day in school everyone had oiled their hair. My hair were most heavily oiled . The teacher warned my friend to use more oil on her hair. On the third day in school, the teacher noticed that my friend had not oiled her hair at all. So she went into staff room and brought a big bottle of parachute oil of 100 ml . In front of all girls the teacher made one of my friends sir between her legs. She combed her hair and started pouring huge amount of oil all over her hair. My friend pleaded to class teacher to stop but teacher cover her hair in oil. Finally after pouring oil over her head , she massages her head. Her hair were the most oiled hair in the class. Her hair were shining very brightly. Oil was dripping from her hair for about 1 hr. From that day onward , she always oiled her heavily. I had accepted that my hair were going to be oiled so I instead of getting sad I started enjoying it
Hi everyone , Ankita here again, Last time I shared my hair oiling exp. Of school, well now let's begin my college.
After school I was relieved that I had to not oil my hair again or perhaps that's what I thought. It was a all girls college and hair oiling my compulsory . Most of the rules regarding hair my no different than those of the school. I don't remember whether I mentioned my hair length last time. They were about mid-back length back then. Now they waist length. The only difference between school andacollege was, in college no was allowed to keep their hair open, however short they maybe. If girls hair were less than shoulder length then she had to use a hair band. No girl was allowed to have hair bangs . If one was seen with them the they would have to use a hair band to keep them tied back. One the first day, the rules about to hair oiling were made clear. A friend in my college had very short hair . She had a symmetrical Bob cut. She used to part her hair from middle and use a hair band. She was only with in class with so short hair. She had not oiled her hair one day, and since her hair very short , teacher immediately caught her attention to dry hair. The teacher brought a parachute hair oil bottle of 100ml from the staff room. I was surprised that she didn't call her in staff room, but brought the oil in the classroom. She took out hair band from her hair and sat on the chair and told her to sit between her legs. After combing her hair she was about to pour the oil on her dry hair. Then my friend just requested her to use less oil since her hair were short. The teacher that it it was her(my friend's) fault for not cutting her hair so short. Then she poured huge amounts of oil on her hair. I knew how she felt cause I had gone thru the same twice in school. Only half bottle was finished and her hair were already dripping down with oil. But the teacher didn't stop and started pouring excess oil on her hair . Then the remaining on her head. Finally after the bottle was finished she messaged her hair and tied them in 2 pony tail to embarrass her even more. Oil kept dripping from her hair for a long time. I felt that even half on the bottle was too much for her short hair. But no one had a choice but to oil hair . This went on for the next 2 years . I also got called by the teacher many times. All the girls in were atleast called once by the teacher to get their hair oiled. This continued for 2 years.
i All, After reading your story I can relate to your issue of how sometimes we just have to accept and remain quiet. My name is Bala and a year ago I had straight shoulder length hair. Around that time I used to smoke and drink and stay out late at nights. Soon my mother started worrying as its only two of us. So she would call me in the evening and oil my hair very heavily with coconut oil everyday thinking I would stay home. After 2 hours I would wash my hair and leave house. This went on for some time and then my mother all helpless sent me to grandmother house in our village. My grandmother is very strict., so she said I would be staying with her a long as she wants and I cannot decide. Then she introduced me to the three ladies who work for her.. On first day there in afternoon she was going to temple and told the ladies to oil my hair heavily and she will check after she is back. The ladies called me later to the backyard where they were oiling hair. I said no and went to my room. Later my grandmother came and called me. When she saw me she got angry seeing my hair all dry. She pulled my ear and took me to backyard. She made me sit and told me to take off t-shirt. Then she called ladies and told them to bring coconut oil and comb.One of them got a small stool and sat on it while grandmother made me sit between lady's legs. She combed my hair all the way back. Grandmother sat in front of me. She told the lady to pull hair all.the way back and make middle parting. I protested and ear got pulled again. She made middle parting and grandmother opened bottle and poured oil right on top of parting. Oil slid on face and neck. Then she told lady to massage hair . She massaged my hair with strong fingers. While she was rubbing oil into hair grandmother told everybody that from now on my hair is to be oiled 3 times a day. and all three ladies are responsible for it. Then she told me that I have stop bad habits and help in the house with the ladies. Not to leave house alone and have one of them with me always. The lady was massaging more oil and then took a fine comb and pulled oiled hair all the way back. Then she made a single tied choti. She took more coconut oil and softly applied it on the choti. Then grandmother took me inside and made me stand in front of mirror. I had tears to see my hair like this but grandmother loved it. Later, after dinner I was sitting with grandmother when one of the ladies came and took my hand and said come to kitchen with me. Her butt long hair was heavily oiled and open hanging loose on the right side. I almost had tears knowing more oiling will be done. Then grandmother said Devi oil his hair heavily and take your time.. Dont hurry and do fast oiling. Devi said grandmother do not worry as he is one of us and we will take care of his hair as our own. Then Devi pulled my cheek and took me to kitchen and inside Kalyani and Shobha were both oiling their hair. Devi sat down on floor and made me sit in front of her. I pleaded with her to only comb hair and not oil it. Then Kalyani came and sat in front of me and took my tshirt off. She said took her sari pallu and wiped my face and eyes and said no use crying as from now you we will take care of you and help us with our work. She took large teeth comb from her hair and gave it to Devi. Devi open my hair and started combing. She combed for a long time while pulling my hair all the way back. She told Kalyani to warm a large cup of coconut oil and mix it part mustard and part almond oil. She parted my hair all the way in the middle and poured warm oil mixture from cup.
Oil was drizzling down neck and face. She doing champi after. As oiling was being done Devi said my hair will not be cut and will be made to grow as grandmother wants me to have long choti and always oiled. I started almost crying and Kalyani massaged the oil on my face and wiped tears, By know Shobha sat behind Devi and started combing Devi hair. All three had their long oiled thick hair open with long blacks pin in front of head to hold the hair. Later came to know they are called bobby pins. Devi would take strands of hair and massage the oil vigorously. Then soon she was tapping the oil and telling me that my oiling would be three times a day. All three would oil my hair on different times and hair to be washed only twice a week. And whatever they do to their hair same would apply to me. Soon an hour passed and she used whole bowl on my hair. She took a fine comb and combed my hair all back with a middle parting. Kalyani then opened a small purse and took four bobby pins. Devi held my head while Shobha put all four pins in front of my head just like they did. I pulled one pin out and Devi twisted my ear. I was helpless and she put an extra two so three on each side and hair was left open.Oil was massaged on neck and shoulders. Then all got up and both were on my side holding my hands and took me to to living room, When grandmother saw me, she had a big smile and touched my hair and complemented how good I looked in such oiled hair style. She thanked the ladies also and asked Devi to get some kaajal. Devi got kaajal and grandmother took some in her finger and put it near forehead for nazar. She then told the ladies next time she would like a kaajal look for me. I almost froze and then the ladies took me to my room and made me stand in front of mirror. I hair had a very look with my neck and face all oily. Thus began my journey in oiling as Devi said in the morning more oiling and they left.
My name is shanay, this seems more of a oiling fantasy blog. And am also one of you. Sharing with you all my true childhood story. I am from mumbai and belong to a Margarita Jain higher middle class family. In my family i stay with my mum,dad and three sisters.(Vishakha,Rachana,Ishani) And i am the youngest in the family.
Being the youngest in family there is few pros and cons are there like majority of my wishes fulfilled compared to any of the others in family.and being the youngest entire family was so fond of me and at the same time being hard with me. And my mom being parent to a 4 kids, few of my responsibility were given to my sisters.and age gap between me and Vishakha ,rachana was10&9 years and ishani 7 years.
And LOL most awaited oiling part was done by Vishakha and Rachana and some times by ishani.
In my home or school oiling was never a compulsion.But at my house my sisters oils my hair compulsorily for 3 times a week as a hair care routine which i hated.
I will tell you how vishakha oils my hair. Ofcouse she oils heavily. So when i was 12 in school my schooling and classes used to be done by 4pm and than i used to stay home and in society playing. And very first thing vishakha does when i reach home is to oil my hair. She oils with the pure coconut oil. She takes huge amt of oil in bowl and makes it hot. She comes to me and compulsorily made me sit in front of her and she makes center parting and from directly from the bowl pours oil in to my head and spread it with her fingers and palms gently for the few mins and she repeats this process for 6-7 times for my entire head and thats when she stops. She never oils my hair till it flows down but oils extra generously every time. Than she takes hot towel not to wipe excess oil but to wipe my forehead,ears and neck.She makes me clean and than comb my hair in a style which she likes (right side parting) and than let me go to play with my friends. M having a great hair now and before and credit for this goes to Vishakha and Rachana and a bit to Ishani.They took super care of my hair and skin. They have got sulfate free gentle cleansing shampoo for my hair wash also. Vishakha was hard to deal with but rachana was more harder to deal with. My all sisters oil their hair each other and before sleeping and they wash in the morning.
Keep you all posted with more stories of oiling.i know this was lighter one. Apologize for autocorrect..pls bear with me
Hello everyone, Posting after a long time. The more I read the post, the post I feel that you guys are just posting about your fantasies. Indeed some people like heavy hair oiling so much, just like my sister. But if you don't like it and you are forced to do it, you will see things differently. Anyway, as long as I stay at my parent's home, there is no escape for me and I just accept it quietly. It does not make any difference. If I complain, my sis will apply even more oil as punishment. If I don't complain, she will still apply so much oil except that I won't be scolded. I got my hair oiled again heavily just now when my sis had already oiled my hair till fully dripping this morning itself. After lunch, I was sitting and watching tv and was feeling sleepy. My hair was in a bun that she made herself since the morning. I don't have the right to touch my hair or change style. All of a sudden, I felt cold moisture in the middle of my head and when I opened my hair, my sis was pouring coconut oil from the bottle. I asked her why you are oiling again and her reply was that my hair and head have absorbed a lot of oil from the morning so she is just topping up and I just remained silent. She poured a lot of oil again and tapped and could clearly hear chap chap sound when she was patting my head. She just poured again and again without letting my hair loose and even pour a lot of oil on the bun directly. Afterwards, she handed me the bottle and asked me to oil her hair again. I could see that her nape and ears were fully oily from that much oil she applied in the morning. I just complied and let her hair loose and started pouring again and again... patting, massaging, rubbing until she felt it was enough and the bottle was nearly empty. Afterwards she asked me to massage more and I kept on massaging for over 20 minutes and she then requested me to make a bun. She remained sitting on the floor and I simply left to avoid any more oiling. So here I am just typing with oil dripping from my hair - my harsh reality. Shilpa
Karan here again This was happened during the exam times,when everyone is tensed including twinkle mam our teacher,who used to oil my hair everyday. We are 6 in our group tutions and at the day of math exam , we were all called to tutions for math revision. And mam gave us some math question to solve and i was not able to do it than what miss did to me was a history and i ll remember it my entire life.And than while teaching me again for each and every step i got a hard slaps on my cheeks.and i was in pain and crying and she slapped hard again to stop me crying for 2-3 times and in this tutions got over and than it was oiling time.on this day another girl from my batch who has not oiled hair and mam mad her sit along with me tooo.First was my turn for oiling and as usual i started telling her mam pls dont make entire bottle empty in my head ,but she was that angry coz i didnt solve math question, she oiled it so heavily and made me champu again as usual, and i had no other choice but to accept what she has done.Than comes the girls Turn, she was a bob,but a more than medium length hair.she had no idea what was coming to her as it was first time oiling in tutions,she was scared coz she saw how i was made champu in front of her but she also has no choice like me.Than mam brought another oil bottle and made her sit between her legs .Than she parted her hair in middle and she poured huge amt of oil in parting and spreaded properly and massaged for few mins and than she did the same for the sides as well as parting and pouring very heavily and than spreading and than she bend her head and did the same thing to back of the head as well , than came the length which were short but needs to be oiled,while oiling the length mam grabbed her oil in bottom and started pouring the oil to length ,center and all over the head again heavily and again she started spreading and massaging and as i thought that oiling is done extremely heavy and nothing left mam grabbed her hair from back,pulled her back and started pouring oil on center parting.i can literally see a pool of oil at her center and mam started doing chap chap continuously and massaged a bit and than made her good hair style and she wore her hair band than. She was very shy girl as she has not uttered a word while this much oil is been poured on her thats why mam did not gave a champu hair style like me to her..
So I am in my engineering college now . It's a girls engineering college. The good thing here is there is no compulsion about hair oiling. Since I am in the college's hostel my parents don't know whether I do oil my hair or not. So I am free thats what u anyone might think but nooooo. Since it's my 1st semester I have to share my room. I might my private room in my 3rd semester. I repeat "I might". So my 2 room mates sanika and anjali were fond of hair oiling. They oil each other's hair for like everyday and also made oil my hair . They are not my seniors of anything, we are all of 1st semester. Most of the girls were oiled so at least i didn't feel awkward abt getting my hair oiled. Everyone was assigned our hair oiling days . Like I oil both of their hair 2 days, then Anjali would oil my and sanikas hair for 2days and sanika would oil Anjali and my hair for 2 days.
Interesting ankita! i have many question. How much you guys oil everyday? and what is hair type for you three? lenght and volume? and who oils most out of 3? also does every other 60 girl got their hair oiled?
Hi everyone, Ankita here. Finally someone tried to speak to me on this and I am very happy about it. Ok, so I will start answering the questions now. My hair are waist length. Sanika has a a little less than bob cut hair length. And anjali's hair are more than shoulder length and less waist length i.e. a little less than my hair. And yes , I still use parachutes coconut oil everyday. Infact all 3 of us use the same oil. And there is one rule we 3 have made abt hair oiling. I told u last time that I oil their hair some days then anjali oils sanika's and my hair for some days and the same thing abt sanika. So the rule is the one who is getting their hair oiled doesn't get to decide how much oil to be used . The one who is oiling the oil decides how much oil to use.
Ankita here. So when it's my turn to oil their hair I oil their hair heavily. Because when if I would have gotten a private room , I would not have to oil my hair . I need to oil my hair because of them, so I oil their hair heavily. Both of them also oil hair heavily . Actually when we first started hair oiling they said that they were going to use vatika coconut oil . But I said that I would not get my hair oiled and would also not oil their hair with vatika oil. I told them firmly that we would use only parachute coconut oil. Because I had been using it since my school days. So they gave up and agreed to use parachute oil. I like sanikas hair the most because they are easy to manage. After I oil sanikas hair , her hair style is very simple . Just do middle parting and put on a hair band. Or sometimes a small pigtail. Whereas after oiling anjalis hair I need to either braid her hair normally which she likes or in a French braid while attending classes. I normally have my hair in a French braid like anjali for attending classes.
Hi Ankita here again. I was thinking about getting myself a bob cut and cutting bangs like sanika . It's very easy to maintain. And short oiled hair also looks very good . Anjali and sanika are also saying that short hair would suit my face. Sanika even said that she could cut my hair as she had cut her sister hair some times. So my 1st question is should I get a haircut? And 2nd question is should I get I done professionally or from sankia. I haven't told my parents yet about my hair cut planning what should I do . Plz tell me guys ��
Hi Ankita, my opinion will be so biased because I feel like cutting my hair shortest possible to avoid the daily and multiple heavy oilings of my sister. But that's impossible because I can't even decide how to wear my hair or when to wash my hair! My sister decides about everything related to my hair and even the way I dress. It's evening here, and soon I know my sis will call me for oiling again. My hair is so heavily oiled already, and dripping stopped some hours ago but that won't be for long. This evening session is not compulsory and depends on her mood. But night session is compulsory. If I go to bed early, she will even wake me up just to oil my hair. Anyway, sooner or later I will be with oil dripping hair again!
Hi everyone, Ankita here, Thanks for all your opinions, and slilpa , even I thought thru it, that the shorter my hair are less will be the hair oiling. Because sanika here get the least hair oiled as compared to me and anjali. But again I am afraid that my parents won't allow me cut my hair . So I think I would just get my bangs cut
Hi everyone, Ankita here, I think, I have talked about hair cut a lot , so let me tell u my hair oiling exp. Let me 1st tell u that all of us use parachute hair oil and all of us have a different oil bottle of our own of 200ml . This has nothing to do with the story I am telling you tho.
So few days ago , I had a argument with anjali. She was saying that she was bored of this parachute oil, it's too sticky and was bored of it's smell. She wanted all 3 of us to use different oil . I told her it's not possible cause parachute oil was the only pure coconut oil. she argued with me , why can't we use different oils of the same parachute brand then, like parachute Jasmine and parachute advanced. I told her to do whatever she liked but just not to force me to use different oils. And now she was angry. It was her turn to oil my hair. We oil our hair in the morning after having our bathing . So our hair were dry. Anjali 1st finished oiling sanikas hair and did a side parting to her hair and secured them with some Bobby pins. Now it's my turn, she came to me . I gave her my oil bottle and my comb. Although she was angry she combed my hair neatly. But after doing a middle parting she started pouring a lot of oil than usual on the top of the head where she did the parting. She did the same for the with the sides and the back of my head. I had actually closed my eyes in fear that she would empty the whole bottle. Then she began pouring oil on the lengths of my hair, and started massaging. I could say anything because the one who oils the hair decides how much oil is necessary. Sanika was watching me and laughing. She told anjali that it's enough oil on her hair but she didn't listen. She did what I feared . The whole bottle was empty . Actually not the whole cause half of the bottle was already empty and she emptied rest half on my hair. Their was a lot of oil on my hair. She massaged my hair for abt 20 min . She then braided my hair in a French braid. And the worst thing was I had to go to class with this much amount of oil. My hair were actually dripping for some time. But I had no choice cause a test was also to be conducted so i attended class .
Hello Ankita - I have read all your posts. I think you are very lucky to have two roommates with you who are taking care of your hair and you are also returning the favour. I think the 3 of you should cooperate with each other on what could be a really relaxing and fun experience. I agree with you that oiling till dripping causes pleasure to no one and spoils your clothes as well. There is no harm in trying other oils but please still to oils which have as much natural content as possible. You all can agree with each other from today that you will making oiling hair the best experience among 3 friends. You have so many styles possible with oiled hair and if you oil the right amount and style properly you can enjoy nice neat oiled hair to college every day with any outfit indian or western.
Have a look at videos like this for style with oiled hair. Plenty available on the Internet https://youtu.be/ufDUwIVkDjM
Also please don’t cut your hair. I am sure you have amazing waist length hair. Try out different styles with oiled hair and you will learn to love your hair the way they are. I am also sure that a sleek and shiny French braid would be looking fabulous on you. I love your name by the way. Ankita are you Gujarati?
My Name is Janavi, 22 yrs old, usually my mother takes care of my hair and is very strict with it coz my hair started thinning.My mum is very strict with my diet too now coz of hair thinning.And as my basic studies are finished too amd my further studies has 6 months time so whole day m at home only.So my mum thought this is the best time for self and hair care of mine. So everyday after my shower my mum calls me for a oiling and every morning she oils my hair with full 200ml oil bottle. And my morning oiling session lasts 60 mins.she make me breathe before oiling properly for 2-3 mins as she wants me in complete relax than she combs my hair and part my hair in a middle part.Than she puts her palm in my center part and checks weather it is hot or not.And than she opens a bottle and starts putting oil to the middle parting throought and than she spreads the oil with the fingers and she does the chap chap sound with her palm. Than same way she will oil my both sides heavily.Than turns to back side and she will tell me to bend my head to oil my back side properly than comes the length, for lengths she just hold my hair from bottom makes a bun at bottom puts a very huge amt of oil in bun and than she just squeeze the bun.and than she massages my hair for 15-20 mins.Than again she start putting oil to a middle parting,than again to a sides parting and back and again a massage for a 10 mins.and finally whatever oil is left she puts it directly all to a center parting.she massages with such a good style that ,single drop of oil doesn't drip from my hair with a 200ml oil to my hair.Than she just make a nice updo or keep my hair in a loose braids.in a entire day she oils my hair 3 times ,she oils my hair at 4 pm also but just with a 50 ml oil and again before sleeping with 50 ml oil. I am not allowed to wash my hair except Sundays.And on sundays after washing and drying my hair gets oiled again.so my hair stays clean as dont go out generally and never go out when the sun is on.this is my schedule and my hair health is improving dramaticaaly.
Hey Jhanvi and I am not the same as anonymous. I read you haircare by your mother. Your really lucky and I am sure it must be feeling relaxing the way your mother is doing your daily oiling routine. I am so happy that you feel your hair health is improving very fast. Just one thing though. Not sure if you should continue to put so much oil daily. It must be weighing you down and feeling sticky. Now that your hair is no longer thin then maybe your mum can reduce the amount of oil. Still doing the oiling daily but instead focusing more on massage, combing the hair out and then nicely styling them into a braid or bun so you can also go everywhere without feeling too hot or sticky. Styled oiled hair looks really good and I am sure you will also like it that way instead of sticky and dripping.
Ankita has not replied. I hope she’s not cut her hair and has given up the idea now.
I have mentioned in the post that morning oiling lasts almost 60 mins,my mum focuses on both massage as well as on application.And with oil i dont prefer going in the sun as oil attracts dust and coz of it clogs the pores of the hair scalp.Whenever while oiling she feels my scalp is hot or bit tight she feels i need to breath properly and scalp needs more oil.My schedule is everyday oiling but that dosnt mean my hair will be oiled by 200ml oil bottle everyday,coz my hair gets oiled three times a day so sometimes it is just oiling but proper oiling was done everyday from roots to tip.For healthy hair stress free life is must and healthy zinc rich and protein rich diet is must along with relaxation and meditation.Just do this things and it will do a wonders to your hair.
Hi Jhanvi, I totally agree with you that for healthy hair a stress free life and a good diet is equally necessary as a daily nice relaxed oil massage. I too oil or get my my hair oiled daily. Sometimes twice a day at night too. I usually oil every morning after my bath and I make sure that every hair is coated with oil from root to tip and if I feel I need relaxation at night after a hot day then I get oil put while watching TV or reading. It feels really calming and I love the fragrance of warm oil getting into my scalp and hair and then the nice shiny style it gives my hair in different types of braids and buns. I agree, I also avoid too much sun, but I can't manage my day without oil in my hair. So whether I am at work or home or out somewhere, my hair is always oiled and neatly styled. I can't imagine it any other way.
If you oil daily, I am assuming you still go out everywhere right, just not in the sun. Please let me know more about your routine.
I dont oil my hair myself, i need someone my mother or my aunt who oils my hair everyday . Whenever my hair is oiled i prefer to stay at home only and most probably i will prefer to go in my locality to by some household stuff and not for anything else, even for this i prefer to go out in evening wearing some trendy Hat/scarf/headband whichever suits with my outfits.And ofcourse with some trendy hairstyles, mostly sleeky tight high ponytails . and at home i prefer simple braiding. For social events i prefer nice hair washed look and properly blow dried look. I specially love salon blow outs as it stays for 2-3 days, . But whenever i am at home my hair is gonna be oiled for sure.
Do you want to know anything else pooja? Can you tell me about your lifestyle,who oils your hair,your hair care routine
Hi Jhanvi, thank you so much for sharing. In my case my maid oils my hair most of the time in the mornings. She gives me a fabulous massage and then give me a nice style for the day. It’s my relaxing time before the daily routine routine starts where I am off to work. I don’t have to travel much so mostly I am indoors in air conditioning and my nicely styled hair always stays perfectly in place throughout the day until I come home. I usually take braids or buns for work and prefer to dress Indian generally. But on evenings and weekends when I go out with friends for walks or to cafes then I too love sporting sleek, tight and high ponytails along with jeans and tee or a dress and I think the style looks great with a large coloured scrunchie and large hoops in my ears. My back to college look! Sometimes at night when I am tired I get oil put by my maid while watching tv and then I once in a while I make her sit and I oil her hair too. Makes me relaxed to oil and comb someone else’s hair for a change and she does so much for me, I feel I owe it to her.
I can imagine how nice your hair looks after a salon visit. With regular oiling it must be looking great now with thickness and shine.
I too go to the salon once in 2 weeks. But I don’t go for hairwash and blow dry. I go instead for a heavy oil massage. The guys at the salon are really good at giving a massage. And my hair dresser even combs and styles my hair to give me the complete look after the oil massage. While getting oil put I also get my pedicure done so I enjoy the visits for double pampering. My hair is thick and waist length. The hair dresser Shehzad really enjoys giving me a massage so he tells me. I know that I really do. Have you tried getting a massage done at your salon. I would strongly recommend it. You will find it so relaxing.
Keep writing and sharing anything new in your routine
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I am sorry I was not able to post for many days. And Pooja don't worry, I haven't cut my hair . I read all of ur posts ,and thx for sharing hair styles in oiled hair.
By the way , anjali oiled my hair heavily everyday , for 1 full week. She literally used to empty 1 bottle in 3-4 days .I requested her to stop it and asked her which hair she liked. She said that at least for 1 month she wanted all 3 of us to use parachute Jasmine hair oil. So now all 3 of us are using that oil. I told her we will use it only for 1 month . She agreed . The good thing she stopped oiling my hair heavily and she is happy.
By the way ,anjali and I try to keep our hair in twin braid rather than a single braid. Cause twin braids look more nice and disciplined. Sanika braiding her hair is out of the question , cause they very short, she only need a hair band.
I am still thinking whether I should just get my bangs cut. And Shilpa , pooja how is ur hair oiling routine?
Hi Ankita, so good to hear from you. And yes you did have me in suspense and worried that you got your hair cut. I am so glad you decided against it. Plus I am also glad that you have worked it out with Anjali by compromising for a while on the hair oil so that she doesn’t oil very heavily. The idea is to enjoy oiling each other’s hair and I think now you all are going to. Looking forward to the oiling everyday rather than waiting to get over with it. After one month then you can have your choice of oil too. I personally prefer bringhraj Ayurvedic oil. It’s a bit sticky but it has all natural ingredients and feels great in my hair. I love the smell too. Twin braids look cute but since I go to work I usually always have single braid or bun. Sometimes I get my maid or my parlor massage person to do a perfect French braid. My hair is thick and till waist length so it looks very nice on me. When I wear western clothes I usually put my hair in a nice tight high sleek and shiny pony. I always get my hair oiled just a little even if I have oiled them in the morning so that the pony comes out sleek. I love putting my pony in front and then playing with my hair.
Hello everyone, I been visit here after too long .. By the way for who are new here let me give my introduction, I am Rahul , female hairdresser .
Ankita nice to here about routine of you 3 girls . N twine braids always make girl cute .. Pooja you still oppose and worried about hair cutting ... In my opinion Ankita has to cut her hair because she is college student and its time to do experiments and adopt new fashion . In many cuts one don't lost their length like layer cut , step cut 90 degree 75 degree feather cut .
Pooja i really believe Shehzad enjoy a lots ur massage , I too have some regular clients who's massage i enjoy. I hope I can give u a nice long massage..haha
Hi Rahul, long time and good to hear from you. What to do I can’t ever get myself to have a haircut. Although I always get regular trims every few months to keep my ends even and healthy. I also don’t like to have hair much longer than waist length. But I don’t want it shorter either haha. I love my thick long hair and getting it oiled and styled everyday. Maybe when I get older and it becomes thinner and less manageable I will think about coming to you for a nice haircut.
Yes Shehzad does enjoy giving me a massage and puts in extra efforts which I obviously never complain about. He combs and styles my hair too after oil massage which generally they don’t offer at the parlor.
Tell us na about your latest. I used to love reading about your stories. Specially about Neha’s hair oiling. Hope it’s still going on.
Hi pooja , Neha has taken haircut from me in diwali , I cut 4 inch of her hair , her hair just belowe her shoulders, so she used to kept it open which change her look and she look gorgeous. Now again her hair grow and its now up to her stomach.
Yes she came regular for oiling . Even i enjoy to oil her short hair too . Which make my task easier haha ...
2 days ago on Sunday she came for hair spa , while massaging her i told her to again cut her hair , summer cut .....
Tonight she will come for oiling , I oil her hair and make 2 braid , hehe
Good to hear from you Rahul. I am sure Neha is enjoying her regular oil massages from you. Please describe her massages. Any new techniques? Yes probably short hair is easier to take care of but long hair looks so good to oil and then style after combing. I would not advise you to cut Neha’s hair again. Instead try out different sleek hairstyles for her after oiling. She will look very nice. Please check the videos of babitasgallery that Namratha posted on this group a couple of weeks ago. Neha will enjoy getting her hair styled from you like that. There just so many options after oiling on that channel.
I stay in mumbai, i am 23 years old guy, i like this heavy hair oiling stories you guys are putting Pooja,Rahul,Janavi, Shilpa, Karan,Ankita, Shanay..your stories are amazing.
Even i like this sort of oiling , but in my case i have no one to do it so can any one help me which salon in mumbai does this sort of oiling.and as a guy i would prefer lady therapist to oil my hair heavily.
Glad that you like the hair oiling stories Priyank. Hair oiling is one of the most relaxing and fun activities to do. We gujjus continue to oil our hair regularly as per tradition. Going to a salon for hair oiling is great only if you have longer hair. For shorter hair it would be good to get oiling done at home from mother or maid. If you want to grow your hair then oiling regularly would really help.
Hey i am staying in mumbai as a paying guest and have a job of 9 to 6.So no one os here to oil my hair ,and i can not ask my maid also coz mostly i am outdoors , so whenever she comes i am not home and even my rappo with her is not that good to ask for oiling.
Try a friend from work then or I am sure there are unisex salons in Mumbai who will do oil massages. But it will be expensive to do that daily so best would be to make friends at work and try and do group oiling sessions. Would be fun and a good way to bond also for both Females and guys.
Tried a salon hair hot oil massage at a unisex salon at chowpatty. And i got this head massage after 8 years , mostly first time after my schooling, and first time in a salon. So it went as follows
So the front desk at the salon introduced me too a lady Named sheetal,who did my hair oiling.
First, she asked me which oil to use coconut,olive,almond to which i said coconut. Than she came with some oil warming machine and warm the oil in it.after few seconds of warming she started oiling my hair part by part with cotton balls.for first 2 minutes she only applied part by part. But as a reader here in the blog, i wanted my hair to be very heavily oiled, so in my mind i was continuously praying god that pls oil my hair more but she didnt after 10 minutes of massage i asked her sheetal can you pls apply more oil and she looked at me strangely and told me sir, wapas Lana padega, Maine aapke hairs ke according proper lagaya he, but i insisted her to apply more and she went out came back with more oil and applied again part by part, but even after this i didnt get the feeling of pouring and she did not even did those chap chap sounds. So in all, my first salon visit was disappointing .Want some amazing massage ,that people have posted here in this group.
I agree Priyank, that does sound like a disappointing massage. A warm heavy oiling massage does wonders and makes you feel very relaxed. Maybe with longer hair they would have put more oil. When I go to the salon my person knows that I like my waist length oiled heavily from root to tip so he does a full bowl of oiling in my hair and then gives a massage. It feels really good and then when I leave the salon in a nice shiny perfect braid, I feel really refreshed.
As I said, the best thing for you would be to find someone from work to give you an oil massage and you can do the same in return. Would be great fun and can spend a relaxing time together.
Hi Priyank, Agree with Pooja that you need a heavy oil head massage to really enjoy it. I would suggest talking to your maid and be friendly with her. Soon she would oil and massage your hair. The advantage is you could create your own time and day for oiling.Plus you can save money by not going out and enjoy hot oil head massage in your own home. What do you think Pooja ? BTW it's been awhile hope u doing good
Maid who comes at my house is old lady with grey hairs ,may be in her late 40s, i dont feel any need to ask her for oiling,as i like to get my hair Oiled with the person i share a bond with and as of now there is no one right now in mumbai with me at work and at home. And at work my work colleagues are very professional and i share a professional bond with them. And i dont think any one at my work place can do or have done this before coz it very awkward.
Hi Priyank, I agree with Neetu, talk to your maid, if she is not interested, then find a new maid who likes oiling and would like to oil your hair too.
Hi Sumit, good to hear from you. I hope you are doing well and are still oiling regularly with the ladies and enjoying the group oiling get togethers. Your hair must have definitely grown longer with oiling daily. Hope you are experimenting with different hairstyles on your own hair and learning by doing them for the maids. By now I think you must be having your own collection of hair bands, pony bands, clips, pins and buckles to wear on your hair. It's great fun to have all these accessories to use to style your hair when it's long and neatly oiled.
Hello Pooja, I am well. Thanks for asking. I have got a job which requires much travelling so have not been able to post. Also working long hours sometimes at night. For a couple of months I was not able to oil my hair. Mother used to feel bad and I always said not now. The maids tried to but no time. As my hair has grown longer, it also became dry and rough. Last week took some time off work and was sitting in living room watching TV. Mother came to me said to comb her hair as she just got oiling done. While combing her hair she said she is worried about me and how working so hard and not caring for self. After some time combing she told me to come sit on her lap. I did and she ran her hands through my hair and said look how bad your hair is, let us pamper it with heavy oiling. She called Geeta and Malti and said lets oil his hair and pamper him so go and warm bowl full of coconut oil and mix castor oil with it. Soon she opened my hair and started combing it. She was mad as hair was rough and problem combing it in strokes. Then both maids came with combs and bowl of warm oil. Mother made me sit on floor and both maids sat in back while she sat in front. He took oil and put it on my middle parting dripping oil a lot and then told maids to make 2 parting and oil my hair and massage it. Both maids were took combs and made parting and poured oil on length of hair and massaged it in hair. While oiling the maids asked me if I stopped loving long oiled hair and hair play. Mother kept pouring oil and maids were massaging.it in hair. Soon both made a double choti which Mother wanted and then coated the choti with handful of jasmine oil. Mother took bobby pins and put three on each side and Geeta got kaajal and put it under eyes. They all hugged me and said today whole day they will oil hair and do hair play. More to follow… What do u think Pooja ? Any suggestions ? I haven't got any hair accessories as of yet just the old clips and pins. Now I am going to need Sumit
Oh that’s so sad Sumit that you were not able to oil your hair regularly. Hair get really rough and unmanageable if you don’t keep them oiled. Now with everyone so happy to have you back in their oiling group I am sure it will get all the nourishment again. Sounds like a cute scene their welcome back for you. You better go and buy hair accessories over the weekend. You will need thin bands for the end if your braids, a thick buckle, bobby pins, u pins, coloured clips to match your attire and coloured scrunchie bands for high ponies and sometimes when you want to keep your hair open it would be nice to get a decorated hair band too. Enjoy sleek oily shiny hair with all these accessories to try out. I bet it will be a fun weekend
Hello Pooja, Today Saturday, I washed my hair in morning and kept it dry. I told Mother going out and be back later in evening. At market bought all as u requested. Bobby pins are only ones black, while everything else is color even u pins. Picked up several scrunchies and head bands, hair clips and buckles.I also got couple of containers of Parachute oil., castor oil and aloe Vera gel. Also got Vatika Jasmine oil. When I reached home mother was watching TV and maids were going house work. Mother had her hair tied in a oiled bun. I told all three to sit together. I told them I am very sorry I have not oiled my hair. showed them all I bought. They were happy and surprised. I told them to make mixture of coconut, and castor oil and aloe Vera and apply to hair at regular intervals. And fish braid and oiled bun wirh stick for style and they can dress me anyway they want. Mother said today just apply coconut oil and on Sunday mixture to be applied. Then she asked me why these two hair style I said my friend suggested with Churidhar. She smiled and told maids to oil my hair and tommorrow pamper him all oiling three days straight and no washing of hair. What do u thi k Pooja? Any suggestions.
Dear Sumit, You are having great time with oiling ritual. I think heavy oiling everyday without washing is not good for scalp. It will block pores. After heavy oiling you must wash hair with herbal shampoo and remove oil completely and may be after drying hair again apply hair oil. I think 3 days oiling is not good idea.
Hi Pooja and Priyam, Thanks Priyam for suggestion. I did wash hair on Sunday morning, but after that Mother wants three days of oiling. She wants my hair to be heavily oiled and styled. On Saturday evening all three of them had same hairstyle tied in three knots and rest open like a half choti. They kept choti in front, then Mother said after oiling same hairstyle for me. Geeta went in kitchen to warm oil while Malti took me to kitchen too. I sat on floor in front of Malti. She sat on stool then lovingly made me sit on her lap. She put her open choti in front of me. She said Mother always make me sit on her lap and then plays with my hair and do oiling. Now they want to do the same to me. Shanti untied my hair and gently stroked it and did hairplay. Geeta stood in front of me with bowl of oil and poured some coconut oil on middle parting and started massaging head. She said would love to style hair with all the hair stuff I got from market. Shanti was oiling length of hair. After some time Geeta sat on stool and made me sit on her lap and she nicely combed oiled hair and made half choti hair style like them. Shanti took some more castor oil and coated my head with it to have shiny look They said on morning they will style my hair in fish braid and evening bun with stick. Soon Mother called me and she was watching TV. She made me sit on her lap and she did hair play with my half choti. She would stroke my head and say oiled look is best for me and she would like me to wear Churidhar on Monday.
Hi Pooja, Hope u are doing well and oiling regularly. Been traveling a lot so unable to post. Again due to that unable to do regular oiling. This weekend after long time got to be home so mother was very happy as now she would be oil my hair with help of maids. On Friday as I was home mother told Geeta to make a paste of amla powder mixed with water and castor oil. She was sitting in front of dressing table while Malti was standing behind her combing her hair. She made me sit on her lap and started checking my hair. As she ran her fingers she said hair is very rough and she will do champi with warm coconut oil.and then coat my hair with castor oil. but first she will apply amla paste to hair and Malti touched my hair and said she will oil also on afternoon and night as my hair needs nourishment and has become dry. Then mother made me sit between her legs and she open my hair and started combing. By now Geeta came with paste. Mother lovingly applied generous amount of paste and made a bun. My hair was totally wrapped in paste. Then Mother told Geeta to wash my hair after 30 mins and dry it and then bring me back to room. Soon all 3 ladies indulged in small talk. Malti by now was oiling mother's hair and she told me that since I travel so much it's about time I married so someone can take care of me. Mother smiled and said she was thinking the same thing and there is a certain lady who she know would make nice wife to me. I am a bit surprised and mother said soon she will takee to meet her. Both maids then tease me. What do you think Pooja ? I am not sure what to do.
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Thanks Neetu. Hope we can all make this blog come alive again with our stories and experiences with the central theme of oiling, massages, hair care and much more :)
ReplyDeleteYes, Pooja. I hope the blog comes alive again with out experiences.
ReplyDeleteI had to cut my hair shorter than I hoped. A few months ago, a friend invited me over to her house for the weekend. There, we decided to step out to a pub. Her friend offered to iron my hair and did a poor job of it and burnt most of my hair. I had to cut a lot of it off because the texture was absolutely ruined. It's growing back slowly.
ReplyDeleteOh God! So sorry to hear about this. Nothing worse than losing precious hair like that, which you have grown with so much love. You must have felt miserable. Hope your maid is oiling regularly. Use only pure oils like coconut and castor to grow the hair back. I am sure in a year's time you will be happy with the length again. Go for just half inch trims every 4 months or so. So what kind of styles are you doing now? Use a clutch also for some variation, along with the evergreen ponytail. You can leave your hair half open with the clutch and it looks really neat with nicely oiled hair.
DeleteYes, Pooja. It was quite depressing. That's why I stopped commenting. The length is still alright. It's about mid back now. But I feel like I lost a lot of thickness.
DeleteI can definitely understand the feeling. Keep oiling regularly with whichever pure oil suits you hair the best and shampoo not more than twice a week, unless you go out in dusty conditions. The thickness and lustre will definitely come back on the new hair growing from the roots. Hang in there, babe! Good old oiling will definitely give you everything your hair wants and needs :)
DeleteSure, Pooja. I haven't stopped oiling.
DeleteHello pooja yes i do take double french braid after she is back from school , for class or in general it does look bit stylish and for younger i use hairband less due to hair damage! so i use 1 clip each side to hold hair in place and they are already oiled so they stay very neat.
ReplyDeleteYes Ami, hairband can damage the hair if kids keep pulling it off and putting it back. I am sure she must be looking cute with coloured clips on each side. Any hair style with oiled hair looks very neat. This Friday why don’t you and your elder daughter both do oiling and do single French braid on each other’s hair.
DeleteOn friday its oiling for them only , She do not enjoy doing those stuff so i never forced her but yes i do oil their hair on friday night
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ReplyDeleteHi everyone,our office is having a cricket tournament next weekend and I made it to one of the teams. I'm now worried that a day of running around and the dirt and the dust is going to ruin my hair.
ReplyDeleteNeetu, I agree that's a big pain for hair. Make sure you don't leave your hair open. It would be best to make a nice tight braid after oiling and then also wear a cap to cover your scalp from getting dusty. Please use clips or bobby pins to hold your top hair together inside the cap. The braid can come out of the cap hole at the back. The oiling will keep you head really cool and I am sure the nice shiny braid will look really nice. Will protect your hair as best as possible. When your inside the dressing room, you can remove your cap and flaunt your braid. It will be a really neat style with your hair pinned up nicely and the tight shiny braid :-)
DeletePooja, cap and braided hair is a good idea. Running around with braided hair may be distracting. I'm thinking I'll wear the cap and put the hair through the hole. But instead of just a braid, I'll secure the hair into a bun. What do you think?
DeleteI thought the braid would have looked cute and neat, specially while running around :) A nice coloured band to secure the end of the shiny braid would be nice. If you just don’t like that the go for the braided bun. I just think buns are for more formal occasions whereas the good old oiled hair braid is neat and casual. Either ways your hair will remain protected.
DeleteMaybe it will look cute when running around. I'll try that. If it gets too distracting, I'll wrap it up into a bun.
DeleteGreat Neetu....tell us how it went soon.
DeleteHow come no one else is writing on this chat?
Hello Pooja and Neetu,
ReplyDeleteDidn't realize new page was put up and comments being posted. Silly of me. Very recently before washing hair my mother makes the maid apply Patanjali Aloe Vera gel on my scalp. One of.her friends recommended it to her and said it will make hair smooth and shiny. Now even my.mother is getting knowledgeable about different hair products and trying it on me. and yes I did put gajra in hair during Diwali. My mother a day before came and told me very nicely she would like to see flowers in my long choti. She said as I have long hair why not decorate it nicely like everyone else as all the ladies will have gajra in their oiled hair. So I said yes to her as she made me bit emotional. So next day everyone was dressed in colorful saris and hair all heaviled oiled with long chotis and lot of gajras in hair. My mother gave me a nice new red Kurta with white pants to wear. After I got ready my mother took me by hand and made me sit in front of maid and her friend. My hair was neatly parted and both of them oiled each side with warm coconut oil. Soon they tied a long tight choti and coated it with castor oil. Then maid got a couple of bobby pins and pinned gajra on either side so the gajra rests on my shoulders. After wards she told me to get up and her friend wrapped a long around my choti. Everybody were happy to see with hair all decorated. Then we all.left for temple where lots of ladies complimented my hair. What do you both think Pooja and Neetu. ?
Wow! Sumit, way to go!!!
DeleteYou should listen to your mom more often. 😋
How's the aloe gel? If it's good, I'll try it out as well.
Hello Neetu and Pooja,
ReplyDeleteAloe Vera is good. Just apply it the day you wash your hair. Leave it for a hour or so before washing. My hair has become more soft after using it. That day when I had flowers in hair, some girls told my mother that with my hair decorated like that I should have worn a sari or salwar suit. Next day my mother told me.about it and also talking to Shanti and Geeta about it. All three of them like the idea and told me to try it soon. Soon after I was called for my daily oiling. As I entered the kitchen my mom was just getting off the phone and her hair tied in oiled juda with flowers wrapped around it. I sat in the middle as usual and oiling started. As oiling was done my mother said she was talking to her friend who is a tailor and will be coming to measure me for Salwar suit and for sari I will come with them all to buy from store. I got a bit angry and my mother said since I am only male, I should listen to the ladies and have some fun. Both he maids suggested yellow Salwar suit and green sari. The maids oiled my hair heavily and made a tight bun. Then coated the bun with jasmine coconut oil and wrapped flower around it. I asked why flowers they said now this the way to decorate hair. I don't know what to do. Later in evening my mother was watching TV so I told her frankly I don' likethis dress wearing and flowers in hair. She made me sit in her lap and said not to worry and do it for her. Then she opened my bun and told the maid to get comb and oil bootle. she then combed my hair and oiled my hair again. Please advise Neetu and Pooja
Hi Sumit,
DeleteYour mother is really fond of you and takes such good care of your hair. I really like the sound of your mother telling the maid to get a comb and oil bottle and then making you sit in her lap and combing and oiling your hair all over again. Must have felt so loving and good. I think you should do it just for her. And salwar suit is not too different from kurta pajama so I am sure you will be comfy in that. And with long oiled hair it will look good too. You should wear bangles and earrings to complete the look too.
Hello Pooja,
ReplyDeleteNice to hear from and thank you for advice. I agree my mother loves taking good care of our hair. As she doesn't oil my hair as often as the maids do, she spends more time just combing and then oiling. She loves combing my hair with long gentle strokes and always complement it. She always says how lucky I am as group of ladies take care of my hair. I am lucky to have her.
On Saturday I had washed my hair and my mother was going to market. Soon I heard the maid calling me so I went to kitchen where both the maids had their hair heavily oiled in a loose bun around their shoulders with both having a comb in the hair. They made me sit and opened my hair. Geeta was combing my hair while Malti was warming coconut oil and then adding castor oil to it. Geeta said she would do champi today. She pulled my hair a bit so I looked up and poured oil in the middle parting. then started tapping the oil. While we were doing small talk I mentioned to them it was my mother's birthday next Saturday. Both quickly suggested I should wear Salwar suit as present. They both massaged oil nicely and heavily oiled my hair. I then said yes and they were very happy and said they would but Salwar suit. Soon they tied a tight choti and coated it with jasmine oil. What is your advice Pooja ? They oiled my hair so nicely that I felt relaxed and said yes.
A nice oil massage does that to you Sumit. When someone is putting warm oil in your hair and massaging it, the feeling is so good that they can make you agree to anything :) I am sure the salwar suit will look really nice on you, specially with the perfectly oiled long choti of yours. Get them to do a nice fishtail or khajoori choti for you. Please also put kajal and bindi to complete the traditional look with nice jhumki earrings and bangles. Your mother will be so pleased and it will be a perfect birthday gift for her. I am sure that at the end of the day, she will lovingly put oil for you again and enjoy combing your hair for you as you sit in front of her in a salwar. Have fun!
DeleteHi everyone....no messages from anyone on the blog. It’s been totally idle. Neetu how did the cricket manage go? Did your braided look turn out ok? Hope your hair didn’t get dirty and you got some complements. Sumit how was your mother’s birthday? Did she get surprised and how did you look? Rahul you are not writing at all. Still waiting for your descriptions of the massages you are doing nowadays. You were so active. Ami how is your daughters oiling routines going. Any new styles? Priya what about you? How is your Sikh friend and you? Have you been oiling each other’s hair?
ReplyDeleteHello Pooja,
ReplyDeleteOn Saturday morning my mother got ready to go to temple as it was her Birthday. She had a new Saree and hair nicely oiled and style in a bun. She asked me to come with her but I made an excuse as for her surprise. I was drying my hair as Shanti walked in holding a large comb and bottle of Nihar Vatika Jasmine Coconut oil. She told me to sit on edge on bed while she stood behind me. She dried my hair and then started combing it. She combed until my hair was all straight. She cleared my middle parting and poured right oil right on it. Then kept pouring on different parts of head. Then she started massaging oil into head. As she had big hand her massage is a bit rough but soothing. She was doing champi and pressing hair with her palm. Then oiling spread to middle and end part of hair with her pouring and massaging hair. I asked her if she could do khajuri choti today. She said today all of us will do long choti with flowers. But next day she will do it for me. Soon she was combing my heavily oiled hair and made a nice oily bun. Soon the maids entered my room both wearing bright color saris and hair all oiled in a tight choti. One of them had a yellow Salwar suit in hand and a paper bag. Shanti said now she will get ready and bring gajra for everyone. Malti then said they will help me put Salwar suit and style my hair like theirs.
So first I wore the pant and they helped me with the suit. It was a bit tight and bright yellow. They took dupatta and pinned it to my shoulder so it not keep falling. Then Malti bought a stool in middle of room and made me sit . She open my bun and combed it while holding hair in other hand. Shanti came in front and cleaned my eyes with towel as she was apply kaajal. Malti smelled my hair and combed it very straight. She took some castor oil and massaged it on my scalp. Then she made a long choti just like hers. Then coated choti with some jasmine oil. My choti was tight and heavily oily. Shanti had applied kaajal and took out bindi, bangles and yellow pins from paper bag. She put bindi first then put 5 bangles each hand. Then put three pin on each side of head to make my hair more tight.
Ten mins after Shanti came wearing a new bright sari and packets of gajra in hand. Her choti was the longest and thickest and heavily oiled smelling of coconut oil. Then all three started putting gajra on each other. All three looked so nice after flowers in hair. Then all three came and stood around me and put the remaining gajras on me. Part of the gajra was nicely arranged on my shoulders on the dupatta. Then all three took me in front of mirror and told me to look. I was surprised to see myself it was as if a new me.
Soon after doorbell rang and I was told to wait in room while all three went out. After like 10 mins Shanti and Malti came and both held my hands and took me to living room. My mother was there with Shanti standing behind her and her hands over mother eyes. When she opened her eyes my mother just stood still. She hugged me and almost had tears in her eyes. She complimented my look and said best birthday gift ever. Soon it was lunchtime so the maids made me serve food to my mother. Then we all sat down in living room and I sat on mother lap and she lovingly played with my oiled choti. Soon she went to room for rest. And then Shanti made me sit on her lap and she adjusted the flowers and pins in hair. She bought her thick choti over my shoulder and said I will comb and oil her hair next day. Soon Mother joined us and I again served tea to her and then later dinner.
Then later after dinner watching TV. My mother told maid to take flowers off and open my hair and warm a cup of coconut oil. Soon Mother oiled my hair again and massaged whole cup in hair. She combed my hair after in gentle strokes. She said now we have to get my set of jewellery and extra suits and her friend is coming for measurement. Please advise anything more I should do.
Sorry for writing late. Sunday is another story.
Write soon Pooja
Hello everyone, Shilpa here. I had posted before regarding my forceful and very heavy hair oilings from my elder sister. I am still facing the same situation, but the only difference is that I just accept and remain quiet because otherwise my sister will scold me and even my mom will scold me. Then my sister will apply even more oil on my hair as punishment. By the way, my sis name is Saanvi. My sis hair is butt length while mine goes below butt (between butt and knees). Saanvi loves very heavy hair oiling and keeps her hair always very heavily oiled. M mom gave my sis full authority on me, so my sis does whatever she wants, without even asking my mom before.
ReplyDeleteToday, after I woke up, Saanvi told me to get ready quickly as we will go out for shopping. My hair was very heavily oiled from yesterday and hers of course will be heavily oiled. So I had breakfast and went for shower. After shower, I was heading to my room but Saanvi called me. She was outside on the terrace. I knew what to expect already and to trick her in applying less oil, I put some water on my hair to make it look wet. I thought that when I go out it will dry with the sun and it will not look too much oily. So I went to her and there she was standing with her hair loose and already heavily oiled. Her hair was shining in the sun. She told me to apply some oil on her hair and I did not question and obeyed. She sat down on lower step and me on higher step and asked her if I need to comb. She said no, I did combing already. So just apply oil and I will tie my hair. So I obeyed and she handed me the coconut oil bottle (500 ml). I started pouring the oil little by little and massaging. I poured several times all over the head while massaging but Saanvi was annoyed and told me do proper oiling and grabbed the bottle from me. She said just massage and I will pour and she started pouring huge amount of oil on her head by squeezing the bottle. I was thinking to myself, my God so much oil and we are going out and started getting worried. Then she handed me the bottle and told me to do the same on her length and I obliged and poured a lot of oil as she wanted. Then I combed her hair and she took the comb from me and combed again and made a bun. There was so much and her hair was shining so much in the sun. Oil was dripping from the comb and little from the bun and her neck and face was oily. She told me come sit in front now... continued next post
**show your sister this post** Coming from a pharmacist, hair oiling is actually bad and actually causes more damage to the hair, especially if done for a prolonged period of time. Oil allows more bacteria and dirt to get into the hair which eventually clogs the hair follicle and leads to potential hair loss and various scalp infections such as acne and dermatitis. hair must be washed with shampoo on regular basis to keep the hair clean and healthy. this has happened to my patients and my recommendation to them significantly helped them.
Deletegoing outside with hair in oiled condition and leaving it on for many days without washing it is the worst thing you can do to it, especially if you live in india
DeleteI remained quiet and sit in front of her and hoping that she will not apply a lot of oil since I had put water on my hair and it looked wet already. My hair was in a messy braided bun and she removed my hair clip and let my braid down. She then opened my braid and started combing the length to remove knots. She was very angry as my hair was tangled from sleeping and she did a rough combing. After combing the length, she started combing from forehead and she put her hand on top of my head. I was getting very scared that she finds out I have put water and to my bad luck, she did notice. She slapped my back. With a loud voice she started telling me, how can your hair be wet? Did you wash your hair or what? I knew I was caught, and I told her that I didn't wash but while opening the shower, some water got on my hair and that's why. She didn't say anything and ordered me to give the bottle. I gave her the bottle and my ordeal started. I closed my eyes in fear and soon I could feel huge amount of oil being poured... I could hear the oil gushing out from the bottle as she was squeezing with full force. She poured again and again and I felt she massaged very lightly. Then she bent my head down and started pouring at the back of my head and rubbing roughly. Then it came to the length. She held my pony and started pouring so much oil that I could feel my hair getting heavier. When she let go of the pony, I could feel my hair sticking to my nape and on my back. I handed her the comb over my shoulder but she did not even pay attention and soon again I could hear squeezing again and she was pouring again on top of my head and tapping. There was so much oil that you could hear chup chup sound. And she took comb from my hand now and started combing. Oil was dripping from my forehead but I didn't say anything. She combed my hair and made a very tight braid and I could feel the oil flowing while make the braid. Then she rolled the braid in a bun and secured it. She took comb again and combed the front to ensure that the hair was all combed and pulled back. She told me go and get ready now.
ReplyDeleteI went to my room and had a look in the mirror and my hair had so much oil that it was still dripping. My face and neck completely oily, my top stained with oil around neck and back. I took a towel and wiped off the excess oil from my face and neck but did not take the risk of wiping my hair.
When I came out of the room, my sister was ready and told me let's go quicky or we will be late. We were standing outside waiting for the rickshaw to come and I could feel the oil still dripping a little on my nape and I kept wiping. Thankfully before reaching shopping mall, the oiling had a stopped but still so many people were looking at us.
We just came back home and sister is now watching tv. Her hair is open right now and she keeps running her hands in the hair and taps her head with the hand on top. My hair is still in the same braided bun.
i wonder what your sister would do to me. my hair has not touched oil for over 10 years and the only thing i do is shampoo and flat iron it everyday. How often do you shampoo your hair? that literally sounds like a pain in the ass that you are forced to wear that much oil everyday. i would suggest cutting your hair around your shoulders to lighten things for yourself
Deleteyou should totally take a pair of scissors and cut your hair shoulder length to lighten it. i also recommend using selsun blue shampoo everyday to get rid of any build up or dirt. It works pretty good for me
DeleteYou should cut all your hair off until its at your shoulders, reading your post gives me a headache and i feel really bad for you
DeleteHi
ReplyDeleteHii, I am Karan , 28 years old , staying in Ahmadabad Gujarat.
ReplyDeleteI would like to share my childhood story here in this blog.
So, I hated oiling eversince my started oiling my hair and in my family my mom used to make hair oil at home and trust me it smells terrific, but I had no other option but to sit in front of her and allow her to oil my hair properly and as a six years old kid I can't do anything, and in this oiling matter she was very strict with me.And she oils my hair so heavily and make this chup chup sound continuosly till she finishes oiling.She oils my hair every morning but she used to wash my hair only twice in the week.so this schedule went on till I was 10 years old. And when I entered fifth standard ,our school was not that strict as my mother but oiling hair was compulsory,not heavily but clean oiled look was required. My school timings were 11am to 5pm.and I had a tution from 8am to 10am for which I have to go to tution teachers place.
So coz of this schedule my mom used to get busy with my tiffins n all coz I have to leave my house at 7.45 am. So she didn't get time to oil my hair.So my mom informed my tution teacher whose name was twinkle abt my oiling and she also told her abt how I hated oiling and she had to do a forceful oiling .
So this was my 1st day at tution.
And for me her first imoreimpres were very strict teacher and during the 2 hrs of tutions I already had a 3-4 slaps on my cheeks which were so painful. We were 6 students (4boys and 2girls).but she used slap me in front of everyone and embarassed me.when the tution got over she asked to leave other students and told me sit in balcony. I said ok mam and went there and within 2 mins she came with vatika oil bottle and comb . And I knew what she going to do with me so I just told,mam pls I don't wanna oil my hair as it doesn't look good. As soon as she heard this she just grabbed my medium length hair from centre and made me sit in between her legs and she grabbed me that tightly I couldn't utter a word , and started crying as this was my first day and have not expected this.and this coz of I cryed she bend my head and slapped me on my back and I immediately stopped crying. Than she started combing my dry mid length hair gently.and she parted my hair in middle with comb and started pouring oil directly from the bottle to centre of my parting and she was just pouring and pouring for 1st 15seconds and I can feel oil all over my head and again I told mam, pls pls don't put too much oil, she just made me quiet by saying I know how and how much too apply so keep quiet and sit straight. so for 1st ten mins she was just pouring oil in to my head parting by parting and making that chup chup sounds. After oiling and massaging she combed my hair with right parting and than I looked in to the mirror and she made me look so champion that I thought how can I go to school with this look,as she had used more quantity of oil even girls required lesser oil than oil in my hair.But I have to go to school with this look and manage myself as it bacame everyday regime for me.
And friends I have many more stories like this of mine , how I used to get forceful oiling from my teacher
Welcome to the club of foreceful hair oiling Karan... I can understand your pain as I go through the same every day with my sister
ReplyDeleteHi Shilpa
ReplyDeleteThat was all abt my childhood and things changed now for me and now I love champi more than anyone else, Just you need is best person to do it. When your lovedone applies hot oil in your hair with those soft hands that's the best felling in the world..Hope things changes for you just as mine ..
I loved reading your story , can you share more abt your hair oiling?
Till that time , read this small story..
As my tution got over , I just asked mam , can I go with my friends today early, as I don't wanted to oil my hair that day, and she exactly told me wait
Get your hair oiled first. And I told no mam I don't wanna get oiled and I tried going with my friends, and she saw it and pulled me back grabbing my shirt , and she gave me a slaaaap across my cheeks and made me sit infront of my friends. And on this day she had oiled my hair in anger and oiled my hair 15 mins continuosly and it was continuous pouring of oil in my hair and rubbing. And she doesn't misses to do those chup chup sounds and that was embarassing for me infront of my friends.and than she combed my hair in a champu hair style And after making me complete champu , she asked me to go .my friends were saying me my cheeks were red for 2 hrs after that banged slap .
And whenever my school friends meets they remember this incident and laugh a lot
Hi everyone
ReplyDeleteHi everyone,
ReplyDeletei am anurag and I am married.i live in nagpur.i told my wife that ,i would oil her hair,but i didn't know she didn't like hair oiling.i tried her convincing so many times that it's good for hair,but she wasn't listening to me. She only oiled her hair till 10th grade,and after that only on Saturdays,and after she totally stopped hair oiling. Her hair had become very dry. After telling her so many times I was annoyed.
The next I bought 5-6 bottles of parachute hair oil of 50 ml and 1 bottle of 150ml. It was 9 pm .I told her to sit on chair and I would oil her hair. She was surprised and she refused. I told hair if she doesn't sit then I would pour entire bottle of 150 ml of parachute oil on her hair. She understood that I was annoyed but and sat on the chair quietly. then I started combing her hair for 5 minutes. then I opened the 50 ml oil bottle and started pouring oil on her hair and started massaging her head. As soon as I poured oil on head she started to complain and told me stop.i said nothing. Then I poured more and more oil and started massaging .I told her to look down I wanted to oil the hair on back of the head. But she refused. Then I started pouring more oil on the top of her head . She understood that I would keep on pouring oil so she finally gave in and looked down. Then a poured a lot of oil on her back head and started spreading the oil. After pouring oil all over her head I started pouring oil all over her hair length. I emptied the full bottle of 50ml . I thought it wasn't enough for her waist lenght hair. I opened the 2nd bottle of parachute oil of 50 ml. Then she started requesting me to stop but I didn't listen. I started pouring oil over hair again especially on the ends , the second bottle was also about to finish. A little oil was remaining so I poured it on her head . After emptying 2 bottles I thought it was enough. Then I started massaging her head for next 30 min . After about 45 min of hair oiling session, after combing her hair ,i braided her hair in a single braid. Her hair very looking very healthy and shiny in oil. I told her to get used to this routine. She was angry complained that she would not do it again. As she was not used to hair oiling I told that I would oil her hair only 3 time in a week. She wasnt happy with it. I told her that I would only use 1 bottle. She was still upset with it but she stopped complaining. I told her this would continue for next 2 months and after 2 months, I would oil her hair daily.
Next day, I bought more bottles of 50 ml of parachute oil like 10 or 12 cause I already had 4 bottles of 50 ml remaining and 1 big 150ml bootle. I didn't oil her hair that day cause I promised her that I would oil her hair alternate days
Then the next day when I asked her to come for hair oiling she stared requesting to not oil too much. She didnt say don't oil my hair as she knew I wasn't going to listen so she asked me to use less oil. I ensured her that I will use only 1 bottle. I combed her hair gently for 2-3 min . I opened the oil bottle and started pouring oil on her head , then on lengths of her hair . Finally after emptying the bottle I started massaging for 30 min . After combing her hair I braided her hair in a single braid. This continued on for next 1 month
She washed her hair everyday in the morning when she was showering. I was okay with it. I was happy that she at least oils her hair.
After 1 month I started oiling her hair lightly after she had taken her shower every day. She complain at first but she got used to it. So the routine was heavy oiling alternate days and light oiling everyday. I used different bottle of 190 ml of parachute oil which would last for many days. I used a different bottle as I didn't want to disturb nights heavy oiling routine by using oil from 50 ml bottle.
After 3-4 months I started oiling her hair heavily at night daily. The quality of her hair has improved very much. Now I think even she enjoys getting her hair oiled as massages.
no no no
DeleteHi everyone
ReplyDeleteAnurag here again
Earlier in winter my wife put a condition on me to heat the oil before pouring it on her head. At the that time I did not understand why so I accepted the condition. It didn't occur to me that time that parachute oil freezes in winter
So one such day I called her for her regular hair oiling session I combed her hair for like 4-5 min . Finally when I opened the parachute oil bottle and tried to pour oil on head the wasn't coming out. As I wasn't allowed the heat the oil I tried squeezing the bottle hard but oil wasn't coming out. So I squeezed so hard the too much oil in solid creamy form fell over her hair. It was easier for me to apply her oil in solid and it seemed to that she enjoyed her hair getting oiled too. So sometimes so keeps the bottle in freezer to turn oil I to solid creamy form, which was easier for me to apply. But I told her, warm oil will be better for her hair. I had no problem with the oil being in solid. I was happy as long as her hair were heavily oiled with parachute hair oil and were shiny .
So sometimes I heated the oil before pouring it on head and sometimes it was in solid form.May the oil be in solid or warm, I made sure to at least empty 1 bottle of parachute oil of 50 ml on her hair. would not oil her hair on Saturday but on Sunday I double the amount of hair oil that is 100ml . Once she herself told me to oil her hair on Saturday too ! And more she told me to double the amount of oil on Saturday too. Hearing this from her made me very happy. Sometimes when she finds regular oiling session enjoyable she tells me to use 2 bottles instead of 1 .
This is the 8th month of her hair oiling session
Hi everyone
ReplyDeleteAnkita here, I would like to share my hair oiling experiences. Current I am a engineer student.
Now, hair oiling was compulsory in my house. I have a sister who is 3 yrs older than me. She used to oil my hair heavily with parachute oil everyday.
I studied in all girls school.the hair regarding hair were very strict. Hair oiling was compulsory in schools , no matter how long or short ur hair is everyone had to oil their hair heavily. Some of the rules are :
You are not allowed to leave your hair open . Only if your hair above shoulder then u can leave ur hair open. If ur hairlength is even 1 cm below shoulder then u have to tie ur hair in a pony tail.
If ur hair length varies from shoulder length to mid-back then u can either keep them in a pony tail and briad them.
If ur hair length varies from mid-back to waist length or more then u have to compulsory braid them.
Girls from 5th standard to 8th standard were not allowed single pony or single braid. They have to make 2 pony or 2 briading from middle part .
Only girls of 9th and 10th standard we're allowed tie thier hair single braid or ponytail
Hi
ReplyDeleteAnkita here again
I remember one day, when I was in 9th standard, I was in a hurry
reach school, and I had not oiled my hair. I braid my hair in a single plait
In the first period, the class teacher checks whether everyone has oiled their hair. She quickly noticed my dry hair. She gave students some questions to solve and told me to come in staff room with her.
There are many parachute oil bottle in staff rooms kept for students who do not oil their hair. There were many 50 ml and 100 or 110 ml bottles in staff room . Tecahers were allowed to maximum of 50 ml oil on girls till 8th grade and can use 100 or 110 ml on girls if 9th and 10th grade . They generally empty full bottle on hair as a punishment.
In my case , as I was in 9 th grade ,she took the big oil bottle. I started praying that she wouldn't use all of the oil.She told me sit on the floor between her legs and she sat on a chair. She unbraided my hair and took out a wide toothed comb from the cupboard and started combing my hair roughly and did a middle partition.
She opened the cap of big bottle.
I started requesting her to not use too much oil.
She started pouring the oil on the top of my head at the middle partition she made and started pouring oil of abt 20 seconds, and atarted spreading it . She told me lean on right side so she could pour oil on the sides of my hair here also she poured oil abt 20 seconds, and the same for other side side of my head. She told me to look down ,I obeyed. She started pouring enormous amount of oil on the back head. She poured oil for spreaded it for more than 30sec. I could feel my head getting heavier.
I was literally crying. I apologized for not oiling hair and requested her to stop. But she said I wouldn't learn from if wasn't given punishment.
Oil had started dripping from my hair. Then she held my hair in one hand and the oil bottle in another,and she started pouring oil on the lengths of my hair. She did this for more than 40 seconds and started rubbing my hair. Then she the remaining oil on hair and head randomly. She emtied a full bottle of 100 ml or parachute coconut oil on my hair. I was just stunned. After emptying the bottle she kept it aside and started massaging my head for 10 min.
Oil was dripping from my hair.
Then she braided my heavily oiled hair tightly, and told me to go back to my class solve the questions.
Oil was dripping from my hair for about 2 periods ie 1 hr
Hi Ankita here ,
ReplyDelete..My sister and parents were shocked to see so much oil on my hair. I was not allowed to wash hair after coming cause of the strict hair oiling rules
The same things happened again after 1 month . I had oiled my hair but teacher said it was not enough so she again emptied a 100ml parachute oil bottle on already oiled hair
From that onwards I always make sure to empty a full 50ml parachute oil bottle on hair before going out the house.
My sis oil my hair every morning after shower with parachute oil .
And I tell her to empty the full 50 ml bottle on my hair no matter how oily my hair looks. It's at least better than getting 100 ml bottle emptied
Hi everyone,
ReplyDeleteI am vaishnavi, i am studying in college In 11th grade
This is about when I was in 7th grade, i was 13. I hated hair oiling. I was in a all girls school. There was a rule in our school that everyone must oil their hair. My mom always insisted me to oil my hair. But I never oiled my hair and neither did some of my friends. Even the schools authorities wouldn't care whether we oil our hair or not.
My school was reopening on 15th June and my aunt had come to stay at our house at 13th June for 2 months.
It was 13th June. There were still 2 days for school to reopen. My aunt arrived in the afternoon at around 12. She is very strict about hair oiling. She noticed that I hadn't oiled my hair. So she asked my mom why wasnt my hair oiled. My mom replied that I didn't like oiling my hair. Then aunt that she would look after my hair oiling . Aunt told me that I will have to oil my everyday,she she would personally oil my hair everyday. I thought she wasn't serious.
Aunt , after freshening took a bottle of vatika coconut oil and a wide toothed comb and enter my room. Vatika was the only oil present in the house. More than half of the 100 ml bottle was empty. The was less than ¼ oil in the bottle. She told me to come in the living room for getting my hair oiled. I said no to her . I told her I didn't like hair oiling . She told me again but my response was no. She went in the living room kept the oil bottle and comb on the table , and come in my room ,grabbed my hair and dragged me in the living room. Mom said nothing to her. She pulled my hair so hard that many hair broke . She showed me my broken hair and told me this is what happens when I don't oil hair.
She sat on a chair , and made me sit between her legs. Before I could say anything she started combing my . I told her to not oil my hair, but she ignored me. She continued combing my waist length hair. Before I knew she started pouring oil on my head. I was surprised. She pulled to right by pulling my hair to oil sides of my head . She poured oil oil on the back of my head and then on the long hair. Then put the bottle aside and began to rub my rub and gave be me a massage . There was still oil remaining in the bottle. After she was done with oiling my hair, started braid my hair . While she was braiding , I told her not oil my hair again. She stopped braiding my hair and poured the remaining oil on my head finishing the full bottle. Then she again massaged my head , braid my hair in a single braid and told me to get up. She told me that she had to use this oil as this was the only oil available , her favorite was parachute coconut hair oil. She told me to get used to this hair oiling. During the hair oiling , mom was in the bedroom. I went to mom showing her my oiled hair. I thought she would tell Aunt to not do it again , but instead she said the oiled hair looked good on me and I should do it every day
Then in the evening, mom and aunt went shopping . After coming home aunt showed me 20 bottles of parachute coconut hair oil. She told me that she would use 1 bottle per day . The bottles were of 30ml or 50 ml. I absolutely hated it.
Hi Vaishnavi here,
ReplyDeleteThen the newn day after taking shower and washing my hair aunt called me to get me my hair oiled .
But I told her I didn't like getting hair oiling . She again grabbed my hair like the day before and dragged me to my bedroom. I requested her that if she was going to oil my then use a different one cause parachute coconut oil is very sticky and I didn't like it's smell. She replied that parachute oil is best for my hair. So I requested her to at least use less oil. Then she said that she would not use more than 1 bottle of oil per day. So I had no option but to obey what she says. I sat between her legs without complaining. She began combing my hair. She did it for 5 min. I knew that my hair we're going to be covered in oil.
So I sat quietly. She then began pouring oil all over my head. As I was quiet , she was moving head gently to oil all over my head. Then she began pouring out on the end if my hair and middle part of the hair. A little oil was remaining which she poured on my head. The she started massaging my head and rubbing my hair. After abt 40 min of hair oiling and massaging she braided my hair in a single braid. Oil was dripping from my hair, and if I said anything about it, I knew she would pour another bottle of oil on my hair. She told me that I wasn't allowed to open my hair, and this should always be my hair style at home. I said ok.
I knew she would oil my every single day. I was worried that she would oil my hair while going to school tomorrow.
Next after showering and washing my hair, aunt called me. As I had feared, She was calling me to get my hair oiled. Today was my first day of school of 7th grade. I pleaded aunt to use less oil, but she didn't listen and used the full bottle. I had no option but to go to school with hair oiled. My friends were surprised to see me getting my hair oiled heavily.
The class teacher made the rules clear about hair oiling. She said that strictness regarding hair oiling was increased. She told us that if any one was found with out hair oil their hair would be oiled by class teacher heavily. So even if my aunt stopped hair oiling which she wouldnt, I had to apply hair oil . The teacher also said that everyone had to use only parachute coconut oil.
Hi Vaishnavi here ,
ReplyDeleteOn the second day in school everyone had oiled their hair. My hair were most heavily oiled . The teacher warned my friend to use more oil on her hair.
On the third day in school, the teacher noticed that my friend had not oiled her hair at all.
So she went into staff room and brought a big bottle of parachute oil of 100 ml . In front of all girls the teacher made one of my friends sir between her legs. She combed her hair and started pouring huge amount of oil all over her hair. My friend pleaded to class teacher to stop but teacher cover her hair in oil. Finally after pouring oil over her head , she massages her head. Her hair were the most oiled hair in the class.
Her hair were shining very brightly. Oil was dripping from her hair for about 1 hr.
From that day onward , she always oiled her heavily.
I had accepted that my hair were going to be oiled so I instead of getting sad I started enjoying it
Hi everyone , Ankita here again,
ReplyDeleteLast time I shared my hair oiling exp. Of school, well now let's begin my college.
After school I was relieved that I had to not oil my hair again or perhaps that's what I thought. It was a all girls college and hair oiling my compulsory . Most of the rules regarding hair my no different than those of the school.
I don't remember whether I mentioned my hair length last time. They were about mid-back length back then. Now they waist length.
The only difference between school andacollege was, in college no was allowed to keep their hair open, however short they maybe. If girls hair were less than shoulder length then she had to use a hair band. No girl was allowed to have hair bangs . If one was seen with them the they would have to use a hair band to keep them tied back.
One the first day, the rules about to hair oiling were made clear. A friend in my college had very short hair . She had a symmetrical Bob cut. She used to part her hair from middle and use a hair band. She was only with in class with so short hair. She had not oiled her hair one day, and since her hair very short , teacher immediately caught her attention to dry hair. The teacher brought a parachute hair oil bottle of 100ml from the staff room. I was surprised that she didn't call her in staff room, but brought the oil in the classroom. She took out hair band from her hair and sat on the chair and told her to sit between her legs. After combing her hair she was about to pour the oil on her dry hair. Then my friend just requested her to use less oil since her hair were short. The teacher that it it was her(my friend's) fault for not cutting her hair so short. Then she poured huge amounts of oil on her hair. I knew how she felt cause I had gone thru the same twice in school. Only half bottle was finished and her hair were already dripping down with oil. But the teacher didn't stop and started pouring excess oil on her hair . Then the remaining on her head. Finally after the bottle was finished she messaged her hair and tied them in 2 pony tail to embarrass her even more. Oil kept dripping from her hair for a long time. I felt that even half on the bottle was too much for her short hair. But no one had a choice but to oil hair . This went on for the next 2 years . I also got called by the teacher many times. All the girls in were atleast called once by the teacher to get their hair oiled. This continued for 2 years.
i All, After reading your story I can relate to your issue of how sometimes we just have to accept and remain quiet. My name is Bala and a year ago I had straight shoulder length hair. Around that time I used to smoke and drink and stay out late at nights. Soon my mother started worrying as its only two of us. So she would call me in the evening and oil my hair very heavily with coconut oil everyday thinking I would stay home. After 2 hours I would wash my hair and leave house. This went on for some time and then my mother all helpless sent me to grandmother house in our village. My grandmother is very strict., so she said I would be staying with her a long as she wants and I cannot decide. Then she introduced me to the three ladies who work for her.. On first day there in afternoon she was going to temple and told the ladies to oil my hair heavily and she will check after she is back. The ladies called me later to the backyard where they were oiling hair. I said no and went to my room. Later my grandmother came and called me. When she saw me she got angry seeing my hair all dry. She pulled my ear and took me to backyard. She made me sit and told me to take off t-shirt. Then she called ladies and told them to bring coconut oil and comb.One of them got a small stool and sat on it while grandmother made me sit between lady's legs. She combed my hair all the way back. Grandmother sat in front of me. She told the lady to pull hair all.the way back and make middle parting. I protested and ear got pulled again. She made middle parting and grandmother opened bottle and poured oil right on top of parting. Oil slid on face and neck. Then she told lady to massage hair . She massaged my hair with strong fingers. While she was rubbing oil into hair grandmother told everybody that from now on my hair is to be oiled 3 times a day. and all three ladies are responsible for it. Then she told me that I have stop bad habits and help in the house with the ladies. Not to leave house alone and have one of them with me always. The lady was massaging more oil and then took a fine comb and pulled oiled hair all the way back. Then she made a single tied choti. She took more coconut oil and softly applied it on the choti. Then grandmother took me inside and made me stand in front of mirror. I had tears to see my hair like this but grandmother loved it. Later, after dinner I was sitting with grandmother when one of the ladies came and took my hand and said come to kitchen with me. Her butt long hair was heavily oiled and open hanging loose on the right side. I almost had tears knowing more oiling will be done. Then grandmother said Devi oil his hair heavily and take your time.. Dont hurry and do fast oiling. Devi said grandmother do not worry as he is one of us and we will take care of his hair as our own. Then Devi pulled my cheek and took me to kitchen and inside Kalyani and Shobha were both oiling their hair. Devi sat down on floor and made me sit in front of her. I pleaded with her to only comb hair and not oil it. Then Kalyani came and sat in front of me and took my tshirt off. She said took her sari pallu and wiped my face and eyes and said no use crying as from now you we will take care of you and help us with our work. She took large teeth comb from her hair and gave it to Devi. Devi open my hair and started combing. She combed for a long time while pulling my hair all the way back. She told Kalyani to warm a large cup of coconut oil and mix it part mustard and part almond oil. She parted my hair all the way in the middle and poured warm oil mixture from cup.
ReplyDeleteOil was drizzling down neck and face. She doing champi after. As oiling was being done Devi said my hair will not be cut and will be made to grow as grandmother wants me to have long choti and always oiled. I started almost crying and Kalyani massaged the oil on my face and wiped tears, By know Shobha sat behind Devi and started combing Devi hair. All three had their long oiled thick hair open with long blacks pin in front of head to hold the hair. Later came to know they are called bobby pins. Devi would take strands of hair and massage the oil vigorously. Then soon she was tapping the oil and telling me that my oiling would be three times a day. All three would oil my hair on different times and hair to be washed only twice a week. And whatever they do to their hair same would apply to me. Soon an hour passed and she used whole bowl on my hair. She took a fine comb and combed my hair all back with a middle parting. Kalyani then opened a small purse and took four bobby pins. Devi held my head while Shobha put all four pins in front of my head just like they did. I pulled one pin out and Devi twisted my ear. I was helpless and she put an extra two so three on each side and hair was left open.Oil was massaged on neck and shoulders. Then all got up and both were on my side holding my hands and took me to to living room, When grandmother saw me, she had a big smile and touched my hair and complemented how good I looked in such oiled hair style. She thanked the ladies also and asked Devi to get some kaajal. Devi got kaajal and grandmother took some in her finger and put it near forehead for nazar. She then told the ladies next time she would like a kaajal look for me. I almost froze and then the ladies took me to my room and made me stand in front of mirror. I hair had a very look with my neck and face all oily. Thus began my journey in oiling as Devi said in the morning more oiling and they left.
ReplyDeleteHi
ReplyDeleteMy name is shanay, this seems more of a oiling fantasy blog. And am also one of you. Sharing with you all my true childhood story.
I am from mumbai and belong to a Margarita Jain higher middle class family.
In my family i stay with my mum,dad and three sisters.(Vishakha,Rachana,Ishani)
And i am the youngest in the family.
Being the youngest in family there is few pros and cons are there like majority of my wishes fulfilled compared to any of the others in family.and being the youngest entire family was so fond of me and at the same time being hard with me.
And my mom being parent to a 4 kids, few of my responsibility were given to my sisters.and age gap between me and Vishakha ,rachana was10&9 years and ishani 7 years.
And LOL most awaited oiling part was done by Vishakha and Rachana and some times by ishani.
In my home or school oiling was never a compulsion.But at my house my sisters oils my hair compulsorily for 3 times a week as a hair care routine which i hated.
I will tell you how vishakha oils my hair. Ofcouse she oils heavily.
So when i was 12 in school my schooling and classes used to be done by 4pm and than i used to stay home and in society playing. And very first thing vishakha does when i reach home is to oil my hair. She oils with the pure coconut oil. She takes huge amt of oil in bowl and makes it hot. She comes to me and compulsorily made me sit in front of her and she makes center parting and from directly from the bowl pours oil in to my head and spread it with her fingers and palms gently for the few mins and she repeats this process for 6-7 times for my entire head and thats when she stops. She never oils my hair till it flows down but oils extra generously every time. Than she takes hot towel not to wipe excess oil but to wipe my forehead,ears and neck.She makes me clean and than comb my hair in a style which she likes (right side parting) and than let me go to play with my friends. M having a great hair now and before and credit for this goes to Vishakha and Rachana and a bit to Ishani.They took super care of my hair and skin. They have got sulfate free gentle cleansing shampoo for my hair wash also. Vishakha was hard to deal with but rachana was more harder to deal with.
My all sisters oil their hair each other and before sleeping and they wash in the morning.
Keep you all posted with more stories of oiling.i know this was lighter one.
Apologize for autocorrect..pls bear with me
Hello everyone,
ReplyDeletePosting after a long time. The more I read the post, the post I feel that you guys are just posting about your fantasies. Indeed some people like heavy hair oiling so much, just like my sister. But if you don't like it and you are forced to do it, you will see things differently. Anyway, as long as I stay at my parent's home, there is no escape for me and I just accept it quietly. It does not make any difference. If I complain, my sis will apply even more oil as punishment. If I don't complain, she will still apply so much oil except that I won't be scolded.
I got my hair oiled again heavily just now when my sis had already oiled my hair till fully dripping this morning itself. After lunch, I was sitting and watching tv and was feeling sleepy. My hair was in a bun that she made herself since the morning. I don't have the right to touch my hair or change style. All of a sudden, I felt cold moisture in the middle of my head and when I opened my hair, my sis was pouring coconut oil from the bottle. I asked her why you are oiling again and her reply was that my hair and head have absorbed a lot of oil from the morning so she is just topping up and I just remained silent. She poured a lot of oil again and tapped and could clearly hear chap chap sound when she was patting my head. She just poured again and again without letting my hair loose and even pour a lot of oil on the bun directly.
Afterwards, she handed me the bottle and asked me to oil her hair again. I could see that her nape and ears were fully oily from that much oil she applied in the morning. I just complied and let her hair loose and started pouring again and again... patting, massaging, rubbing until she felt it was enough and the bottle was nearly empty. Afterwards she asked me to massage more and I kept on massaging for over 20 minutes and she then requested me to make a bun. She remained sitting on the floor and I simply left to avoid any more oiling. So here I am just typing with oil dripping from my hair - my harsh reality.
Shilpa
Where is your dad in all this? You sister is evil
DeleteHi Shilpa,
ReplyDeleteEverything will be sorted soon, hope your sister gets married asap..
Hi All,
ReplyDeleteKaran here again
This was happened during the exam times,when everyone is tensed including twinkle mam our teacher,who used to oil my hair everyday.
We are 6 in our group tutions and at the day of math exam , we were all called to tutions for math revision.
And mam gave us some math question to solve and i was not able to do it than what miss did to me was a history and i ll remember it my entire life.And than while teaching me again for each and every step i got a hard slaps on my cheeks.and i was in pain and crying and she slapped hard again to stop me crying for 2-3 times and in this tutions got over and than it was oiling time.on this day another girl from my batch who has not oiled hair and mam mad her sit along with me tooo.First was my turn for oiling and as usual i started telling her mam pls dont make entire bottle empty in my head ,but she was that angry coz i didnt solve math question, she oiled it so heavily and made me champu again as usual, and i had no other choice but to accept what she has done.Than comes the girls Turn, she was a bob,but a more than medium length hair.she had no idea what was coming to her as it was first time oiling in tutions,she was scared coz she saw how i was made champu in front of her but she also has no choice like me.Than mam brought another oil bottle and made her sit between her legs .Than she parted her hair in middle and she poured huge amt of oil in parting and spreaded properly and massaged for few mins and than she did the same for the sides as well as parting and pouring very heavily and than spreading and than she bend her head and did the same thing to back of the head as well , than came the length which were short but needs to be oiled,while oiling the length mam grabbed her oil in bottom and started pouring the oil to length ,center and all over the head again heavily and again she started spreading and massaging and as i thought that oiling is done extremely heavy and nothing left mam grabbed her hair from back,pulled her back and started pouring oil on center parting.i can literally see a pool of oil at her center and mam started doing chap chap continuously and massaged a bit and than made her good hair style and she wore her hair band than. She was very shy girl as she has not uttered a word while this much oil is been poured on her thats why mam did not gave a champu hair style like me to her..
Can u tell me which oil was used . Was it vatika coconut oil again ?
DeleteMine hair was oiled by dabour amla hair oil ,which stinks a lot and girl with Bob hair was oiled by coconut oil which comes in blue color bottle.
DeleteHey everyone , Ankita here,
ReplyDeleteSo I am in my engineering college now . It's a girls engineering college. The good thing here is there is no compulsion about hair oiling. Since I am in the college's hostel my parents don't know whether I do oil my hair or not. So I am free thats what u anyone might think but nooooo. Since it's my 1st semester I have to share my room. I might my private room in my 3rd semester. I repeat "I might". So my
2 room mates sanika and anjali were fond of hair oiling.
They oil each other's hair for like everyday and also made oil my hair . They are not my seniors of anything, we are all of 1st semester. Most of the girls were oiled so at least i didn't feel awkward abt getting my hair oiled.
Everyone was assigned our hair oiling days . Like I oil both of their hair 2 days, then Anjali would oil my and sanikas hair for 2days and sanika would oil Anjali and my hair for 2 days.
Interesting ankita! i have many question. How much you guys oil everyday? and what is hair type for you three? lenght and volume? and who oils most out of 3? also does every other 60 girl got their hair oiled?
ReplyDeleteHey Ankita, previously u mentioned that u were using parachute coconut oil. Are you still using the same hair oil ?
ReplyDeleteHi everyone,
ReplyDeleteAnkita here.
Finally someone tried to speak to me on this and I am very happy about it. Ok, so I will start answering the questions now.
My hair are waist length. Sanika has a a little less than bob cut hair length. And anjali's hair are more than shoulder length and less waist length i.e. a little less than my hair.
And yes , I still use parachutes coconut oil everyday. Infact all 3 of us use the same oil.
And there is one rule we 3 have made abt hair oiling. I told u last time that I oil their hair some days then anjali oils sanika's and my hair for some days and the same thing abt sanika.
So the rule is the one who is getting their hair oiled doesn't get to decide how much oil to be used . The one who is oiling the oil decides how much oil to use.
Ankita here.
ReplyDeleteSo when it's my turn to oil their hair I oil their hair heavily. Because when if I would have gotten a private room , I would not have to oil my hair . I need to oil my hair because of them, so I oil their hair heavily. Both of them also oil hair heavily .
Actually when we first started hair oiling they said that they were going to use vatika coconut oil . But I said that I would not get my hair oiled and would also not oil their hair with vatika oil. I told them firmly that we would use only parachute coconut oil. Because I had been using it since my school days. So they gave up and agreed to use parachute oil.
I like sanikas hair the most because they are easy to manage. After I oil sanikas hair , her hair style is very simple . Just do middle parting and put on a hair band. Or sometimes a small pigtail.
Whereas after oiling anjalis hair I need to either braid her hair normally which she likes or in a French braid while attending classes. I normally have my hair in a French braid like anjali for attending classes.
Hi Ankita here again.
ReplyDeleteI was thinking about getting myself a bob cut and cutting bangs like sanika . It's very easy to maintain. And short oiled hair also looks very good . Anjali and sanika are also saying that short hair would suit my face. Sanika even said that she could cut my hair as she had cut her sister hair some times.
So my 1st question is should I get a haircut?
And 2nd question is should I get I done professionally or from sankia. I haven't told my parents yet about my hair cut planning what should I do . Plz tell me guys ��
Ankita here,
ReplyDeleteHey neetu , pooja, shilpa ,anonymous can anyone tell me what should I do about my hair. Plz tell me .
Hi Ankita. If you feel you'll look good with shorter hair, go for it! But I'd recommend getting it done at a salon.
DeleteI think french braid look soo elegant specially with oily hair! you should not cut your hair, trimming is fine
DeleteHi Ankita, my opinion will be so biased because I feel like cutting my hair shortest possible to avoid the daily and multiple heavy oilings of my sister. But that's impossible because I can't even decide how to wear my hair or when to wash my hair! My sister decides about everything related to my hair and even the way I dress.
ReplyDeleteIt's evening here, and soon I know my sis will call me for oiling again. My hair is so heavily oiled already, and dripping stopped some hours ago but that won't be for long. This evening session is not compulsory and depends on her mood. But night session is compulsory. If I go to bed early, she will even wake me up just to oil my hair. Anyway, sooner or later I will be with oil dripping hair again!
Hi everyone, Ankita here,
ReplyDeleteThanks for all your opinions, and slilpa , even I thought thru it, that the shorter my hair are less will be the hair oiling.
Because sanika here get the least hair oiled as compared to me and anjali. But again I am afraid that my parents won't allow me cut my hair . So I think I would just get my bangs cut
Ankita here ,
ReplyDeleteI was thinking of getting this hair cut BTW
https://youtu.be/_g0FAwwVsVk
Ankita here,
ReplyDeleteThis one looks cute too. It's a pixie cut
https://youtu.be/3e0QtkuDJlc
Hi everyone, Ankita here,
ReplyDeleteI think, I have talked about hair cut a lot , so let me tell u my hair oiling exp.
Let me 1st tell u that all of us use parachute hair oil and all of us have a different oil bottle of our own of 200ml . This has nothing to do with the story I am telling you tho.
So few days ago , I had a argument with anjali. She was saying that she was bored of this parachute oil, it's too sticky and was bored of it's smell. She wanted all 3 of us to use different oil . I told her it's not possible cause parachute oil was the only pure coconut oil. she argued with me , why can't we use different oils of the same parachute brand then, like parachute Jasmine and parachute advanced. I told her to do whatever she liked but just not to force me to use different oils. And now she was angry.
It was her turn to oil my hair. We oil our hair in the morning after having our bathing . So our hair were dry. Anjali 1st finished oiling sanikas hair and did a side parting to her hair and secured them with some Bobby pins.
Now it's my turn, she came to me . I gave her my oil bottle and my comb. Although she was angry she combed my hair neatly. But after doing a middle parting she started pouring a lot of oil than usual on the top of the head where she did the parting. She did the same for the with the sides and the back of my head. I had actually closed my eyes in fear that she would empty the whole bottle. Then she began pouring oil on the lengths of my hair, and started massaging. I could say anything because the one who oils the hair decides how much oil is necessary. Sanika was watching me and laughing. She told anjali that it's enough oil on her hair but she didn't listen. She did what I feared . The whole bottle was empty . Actually not the whole cause half of the bottle was already empty and she emptied rest half on my hair. Their was a lot of oil on my hair. She massaged my hair for abt 20 min . She then braided my hair in a French braid.
And the worst thing was I had to go to class with this much amount of oil. My hair were actually dripping for some time. But I had no choice cause a test was also to be conducted so i attended class .
Hello Ankita - I have read all your posts. I think you are very lucky to have two roommates with you who are taking care of your hair and you are also returning the favour. I think the 3 of you should cooperate with each other on what could be a really relaxing and fun experience. I agree with you that oiling till dripping causes pleasure to no one and spoils your clothes as well. There is no harm in trying other oils but please still to oils which have as much natural content as possible. You all can agree with each other from today that you will making oiling hair the best experience among 3 friends. You have so many styles possible with oiled hair and if you oil the right amount and style properly you can enjoy nice neat oiled hair to college every day with any outfit indian or western.
DeleteHave a look at videos like this for style with oiled hair. Plenty available on the Internet
https://youtu.be/ufDUwIVkDjM
Also please don’t cut your hair. I am sure you have amazing waist length hair. Try out different styles with oiled hair and you will learn to love your hair the way they are. I am also sure that a sleek and shiny French braid would be looking fabulous on you. I love your name by the way. Ankita are you Gujarati?
Hi
ReplyDeleteMy Name is Janavi, 22 yrs old, usually my mother takes care of my hair and is very strict with it coz my hair started thinning.My mum is very strict with my diet too now coz of hair thinning.And as my basic studies are finished too amd my further studies has 6 months time so whole day m at home only.So my mum thought this is the best time for self and hair care of mine.
So everyday after my shower my mum calls me for a oiling and every morning she oils my hair with full 200ml oil bottle. And my morning oiling session lasts 60 mins.she make me breathe before oiling properly for 2-3 mins as she wants me in complete relax than she combs my hair and part my hair in a middle part.Than she puts her palm in my center part and checks weather it is hot or not.And than she opens a bottle and starts putting oil to the middle parting throought and than she spreads the oil with the fingers and she does the chap chap sound with her palm. Than same way she will oil my both sides heavily.Than turns to back side and she will tell me to bend my head to oil my back side properly than comes the length, for lengths she just hold my hair from bottom makes a bun at bottom puts a very huge amt of oil in bun and than she just squeeze the bun.and than she massages my hair for 15-20 mins.Than again she start putting oil to a middle parting,than again to a sides parting and back and again a massage for a 10 mins.and finally whatever oil is left she puts it directly all to a center parting.she massages with such a good style that ,single drop of oil doesn't drip from my hair with a 200ml oil to my hair.Than she just make a nice updo or keep my hair in a loose braids.in a entire day she oils my hair 3 times ,she oils my hair at 4 pm also but just with a 50 ml oil and again before sleeping with 50 ml oil. I am not allowed to wash my hair except Sundays.And on sundays after washing and drying my hair gets oiled again.so my hair stays clean as dont go out generally and never go out when the sun is on.this is my schedule and my hair health is improving dramaticaaly.
Can u tell me what do you mean by basic studies? What are you doing currently , because 6 months time is too much .
DeleteDosnt seems good replying anonymous.
ReplyDeleteHey Jhanvi and I am not the same as anonymous. I read you haircare by your mother. Your really lucky and I am sure it must be feeling relaxing the way your mother is doing your daily oiling routine. I am so happy that you feel your hair health is improving very fast. Just one thing though. Not sure if you should continue to put so much oil daily. It must be weighing you down and feeling sticky. Now that your hair is no longer thin then maybe your mum can reduce the amount of oil. Still doing the oiling daily but instead focusing more on massage, combing the hair out and then nicely styling them into a braid or bun so you can also go everywhere without feeling too hot or sticky. Styled oiled hair looks really good and I am sure you will also like it that way instead of sticky and dripping.
ReplyDeleteAnkita has not replied. I hope she’s not cut her hair and has given up the idea now.
Hi pooja
ReplyDeleteI have mentioned in the post that morning oiling lasts almost 60 mins,my mum focuses on both massage as well as on application.And with oil i dont prefer going in the sun as oil attracts dust and coz of it clogs the pores of the hair scalp.Whenever while oiling she feels my scalp is hot or bit tight she feels i need to breath properly and scalp needs more oil.My schedule is everyday oiling but that dosnt mean my hair will be oiled by 200ml oil bottle everyday,coz my hair gets oiled three times a day so sometimes it is just oiling but proper oiling was done everyday from roots to tip.For healthy hair stress free life is must and healthy zinc rich and protein rich diet is must along with relaxation and meditation.Just do this things and it will do a wonders to your hair.
Hi Jhanvi, I totally agree with you that for healthy hair a stress free life and a good diet is equally necessary as a daily nice relaxed oil massage. I too oil or get my my hair oiled daily. Sometimes twice a day at night too. I usually oil every morning after my bath and I make sure that every hair is coated with oil from root to tip and if I feel I need relaxation at night after a hot day then I get oil put while watching TV or reading. It feels really calming and I love the fragrance of warm oil getting into my scalp and hair and then the nice shiny style it gives my hair in different types of braids and buns. I agree, I also avoid too much sun, but I can't manage my day without oil in my hair. So whether I am at work or home or out somewhere, my hair is always oiled and neatly styled. I can't imagine it any other way.
DeleteIf you oil daily, I am assuming you still go out everywhere right, just not in the sun. Please let me know more about your routine.
Hi pooja
ReplyDeleteI dont oil my hair myself, i need someone my mother or my aunt who oils my hair everyday .
Whenever my hair is oiled i prefer to stay at home only and most probably i will prefer to go in my locality to by some household stuff and not for anything else, even for this i prefer to go out in evening wearing some trendy Hat/scarf/headband whichever suits with my outfits.And ofcourse with some trendy hairstyles, mostly sleeky tight high ponytails . and at home i prefer simple braiding.
For social events i prefer nice hair washed look and properly blow dried look. I specially love salon blow outs as it stays for 2-3 days, .
But whenever i am at home my hair is gonna be oiled for sure.
Do you want to know anything else pooja? Can you tell me about your lifestyle,who oils your hair,your hair care routine
Hi Jhanvi, thank you so much for sharing. In my case my maid oils my hair most of the time in the mornings. She gives me a fabulous massage and then give me a nice style for the day. It’s my relaxing time before the daily routine routine starts where I am off to work. I don’t have to travel much so mostly I am indoors in air conditioning and my nicely styled hair always stays perfectly in place throughout the day until I come home. I usually take braids or buns for work and prefer to dress Indian generally. But on evenings and weekends when I go out with friends for walks or to cafes then I too love sporting sleek, tight and high ponytails along with jeans and tee or a dress and I think the style looks great with a large coloured scrunchie and large hoops in my ears. My back to college look! Sometimes at night when I am tired I get oil put by my maid while watching tv and then I once in a while I make her sit and I oil her hair too. Makes me relaxed to oil and comb someone else’s hair for a change and she does so much for me, I feel I owe it to her.
DeleteI can imagine how nice your hair looks after a salon visit. With regular oiling it must be looking great now with thickness and shine.
I too go to the salon once in 2 weeks. But I don’t go for hairwash and blow dry. I go instead for a heavy oil massage. The guys at the salon are really good at giving a massage. And my hair dresser even combs and styles my hair to give me the complete look after the oil massage. While getting oil put I also get my pedicure done so I enjoy the visits for double pampering. My hair is thick and waist length. The hair dresser Shehzad really enjoys giving me a massage so he tells me. I know that I really do. Have you tried getting a massage done at your salon. I would strongly recommend it. You will find it so relaxing.
Keep writing and sharing anything new in your routine
Dear oiled hair lovers,
ReplyDeletePlease follow my blog whereby I will be posting some nice Youtube hair oiling videos from friends:
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They are doing a great work and put in a lot of effort in their videos. As oiled hair lovers, it is our duty to help them and promote their videos and channel!
Thank you all and please keep this blog alive as well!
Hi everyone, Ankita here.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry I was not able to post for many days. And Pooja don't worry, I haven't cut my hair . I read all of ur posts ,and thx for sharing hair styles in oiled hair.
By the way , anjali oiled my hair heavily everyday , for 1 full week. She literally used to empty 1 bottle in 3-4 days .I requested her to stop it and asked her which hair she liked. She said that at least for 1 month she wanted all 3 of us to use parachute Jasmine hair oil.
So now all 3 of us are using that oil. I told her we will use it only for 1 month . She agreed . The good thing she stopped oiling my hair heavily and she is happy.
By the way ,anjali and I try to keep our hair in twin braid rather than a single braid. Cause twin braids look more nice and disciplined. Sanika braiding her hair is out of the question , cause they very short, she only need a hair band.
I am still thinking whether I should just get my bangs cut.
And Shilpa , pooja how is ur hair oiling routine?
And that's for now , bye
Hi Ankita, so good to hear from you. And yes you did have me in suspense and worried that you got your hair cut. I am so glad you decided against it. Plus I am also glad that you have worked it out with Anjali by compromising for a while on the hair oil so that she doesn’t oil very heavily. The idea is to enjoy oiling each other’s hair and I think now you all are going to. Looking forward to the oiling everyday rather than waiting to get over with it. After one month then you can have your choice of oil too. I personally prefer bringhraj Ayurvedic oil. It’s a bit sticky but it has all natural ingredients and feels great in my hair. I love the smell too. Twin braids look cute but since I go to work I usually always have single braid or bun. Sometimes I get my maid or my parlor massage person to do a perfect French braid. My hair is thick and till waist length so it looks very nice on me. When I wear western clothes I usually put my hair in a nice tight high sleek and shiny pony. I always get my hair oiled just a little even if I have oiled them in the morning so that the pony comes out sleek. I love putting my pony in front and then playing with my hair.
ReplyDeleteHi Ankita and Pooja. I love the twin braid look as well. I do that when I'm home. when Im at work, my hair's in a ponytail or a bun.
DeleteI am sure you look super cute Neetu....in perfectly oiled twin braids :-)
DeleteHello everyone, I been visit here after too long ..
ReplyDeleteBy the way for who are new here let me give my introduction, I am Rahul , female hairdresser .
Ankita nice to here about routine of you 3 girls . N twine braids always make girl cute ..
Pooja you still oppose and worried about hair cutting ... In my opinion Ankita has to cut her hair because she is college student and its time to do experiments and adopt new fashion .
In many cuts one don't lost their length like layer cut , step cut 90 degree 75 degree feather cut .
Pooja i really believe Shehzad enjoy a lots ur massage , I too have some regular clients who's massage i enjoy. I hope I can give u a nice long massage..haha
Hi Rahul, long time and good to hear from you. What to do I can’t ever get myself to have a haircut. Although I always get regular trims every few months to keep my ends even and healthy. I also don’t like to have hair much longer than waist length. But I don’t want it shorter either haha. I love my thick long hair and getting it oiled and styled everyday. Maybe when I get older and it becomes thinner and less manageable I will think about coming to you for a nice haircut.
DeleteYes Shehzad does enjoy giving me a massage and puts in extra efforts which I obviously never complain about. He combs and styles my hair too after oil massage which generally they don’t offer at the parlor.
Tell us na about your latest. I used to love reading about your stories. Specially about Neha’s hair oiling. Hope it’s still going on.
Hi pooja , Neha has taken haircut from me in diwali , I cut 4 inch of her hair , her hair just belowe her shoulders, so she used to kept it open which change her look and she look gorgeous.
ReplyDeleteNow again her hair grow and its now up to her stomach.
Yes she came regular for oiling .
Even i enjoy to oil her short hair too . Which make my task easier haha ...
2 days ago on Sunday she came for hair spa , while massaging her i told her to again cut her hair , summer cut .....
Tonight she will come for oiling , I oil her hair and make 2 braid , hehe
Good to hear from you Rahul. I am sure Neha is enjoying her regular oil massages from you. Please describe her massages. Any new techniques? Yes probably short hair is easier to take care of but long hair looks so good to oil and then style after combing. I would not advise you to cut Neha’s hair again. Instead try out different sleek hairstyles for her after oiling. She will look very nice. Please check the videos of babitasgallery that Namratha posted on this group a couple of weeks ago. Neha will enjoy getting her hair styled from you like that. There just so many options after oiling on that channel.
DeleteHi all
ReplyDeleteI stay in mumbai, i am 23 years old guy, i like this heavy hair oiling stories you guys are putting Pooja,Rahul,Janavi, Shilpa, Karan,Ankita, Shanay..your stories are amazing.
Even i like this sort of oiling , but in my case i have no one to do it so can any one help me which salon in mumbai does this sort of oiling.and as a guy i would prefer lady therapist to oil my hair heavily.
Pls recommend?
I am gujju guy priyank parekh
Glad that you like the hair oiling stories Priyank. Hair oiling is one of the most relaxing and fun activities to do. We gujjus continue to oil our hair regularly as per tradition. Going to a salon for hair oiling is great only if you have longer hair. For shorter hair it would be good to get oiling done at home from mother or maid. If you want to grow your hair then oiling regularly would really help.
DeleteHey i am staying in mumbai as a paying guest and have a job of 9 to 6.So no one os here to oil my hair ,and i can not ask my maid also coz mostly i am outdoors , so whenever she comes i am not home and even my rappo with her is not that good to ask for oiling.
ReplyDeleteSo salon or any other alternative?
Try a friend from work then or I am sure there are unisex salons in Mumbai who will do oil massages. But it will be expensive to do that daily so best would be to make friends at work and try and do group oiling sessions. Would be fun and a good way to bond also for both Females and guys.
ReplyDeletePriyank here
ReplyDeleteTried a salon hair hot oil massage at a unisex salon at chowpatty. And i got this head massage after 8 years , mostly first time after my schooling, and first time in a salon. So it went as follows
So the front desk at the salon introduced me too a lady Named sheetal,who did my hair oiling.
First, she asked me which oil to use coconut,olive,almond to which i said coconut. Than she came with some oil warming machine and warm the oil in it.after few seconds of warming she started oiling my hair part by part with cotton balls.for first 2 minutes she only applied part by part. But as a reader here in the blog, i wanted my hair to be very heavily oiled, so in my mind i was continuously praying god that pls oil my hair more but she didnt after 10 minutes of massage i asked her sheetal can you pls apply more oil and she looked at me strangely and told me sir, wapas Lana padega, Maine aapke hairs ke according proper lagaya he, but i insisted her to apply more and she went out came back with more oil and applied again part by part, but even after this i didnt get the feeling of pouring and she did not even did those chap chap sounds. So in all, my first salon visit was disappointing .Want some amazing massage ,that people have posted here in this group.
I agree Priyank, that does sound like a disappointing massage. A warm heavy oiling massage does wonders and makes you feel very relaxed. Maybe with longer hair they would have put more oil. When I go to the salon my person knows that I like my waist length oiled heavily from root to tip so he does a full bowl of oiling in my hair and then gives a massage. It feels really good and then when I leave the salon in a nice shiny perfect braid, I feel really refreshed.
ReplyDeleteAs I said, the best thing for you would be to find someone from work to give you an oil massage and you can do the same in return. Would be great fun and can spend a relaxing time together.
Hi Priyank,
ReplyDeleteAgree with Pooja that you need a heavy oil head massage to really enjoy it. I would suggest talking to your maid and be friendly with her. Soon she would oil and massage your hair. The advantage is you could create your own time and day for oiling.Plus you can save money by not going out and enjoy hot oil head massage in your own home. What do you think Pooja ? BTW it's been awhile hope u doing good
Sumit
Hi priyank here
ReplyDeleteMaid who comes at my house is old lady with grey hairs ,may be in her late 40s, i dont feel any need to ask her for oiling,as i like to get my hair
Oiled with the person i share a bond with and as of now there is no one right now in mumbai with me at work and at home. And at work my work colleagues are very professional and i share a professional bond with them. And i dont think any one at my work place can do or have done this before coz it very awkward.
Hi Priyanka. I understand your dilemma. I, for the longest time, didn't know who to ask. But luckily my maid is more than happy to oil my hair.
ReplyDeleteHi Priyank,
ReplyDeleteI agree with Neetu, talk to your maid, if she is not interested, then find a new maid who likes oiling and would like to oil your hair too.
Hi Sumit, good to hear from you. I hope you are doing well and are still oiling regularly with the ladies and enjoying the group oiling get togethers. Your hair must have definitely grown longer with oiling daily. Hope you are experimenting with different hairstyles on your own hair and learning by doing them for the maids. By now I think you must be having your own collection of hair bands, pony bands, clips, pins and buckles to wear on your hair. It's great fun to have all these accessories to use to style your hair when it's long and neatly oiled.
DeleteWrite and tell us how you are getting along.
Hello Pooja,
ReplyDeleteI am well. Thanks for asking. I have got a job which requires much travelling so have not been able to post. Also working long hours sometimes at night. For a couple of months I was not able to oil my hair. Mother used to feel bad and I always said not now. The maids tried to but no time. As my hair has grown longer, it also became dry and rough. Last week took some time off work and was sitting in living room watching TV. Mother came to me said to comb her hair as she just got oiling done. While combing her hair she said she is worried about me and how working so hard and not caring for self. After some time combing she told me to come sit on her lap. I did and she ran her hands through my hair and said look how bad your hair is, let us pamper it with heavy oiling. She called Geeta and Malti and said lets oil his hair and pamper him so go and warm bowl full of coconut oil and mix castor oil with it. Soon she opened my hair and started combing it. She was mad as hair was rough and problem combing it in strokes.
Then both maids came with combs and bowl of warm oil. Mother made me sit on floor and both maids sat in back while she sat in front. He took oil and put it on my middle parting dripping oil a lot and then told maids to make 2 parting and oil my hair and massage it. Both maids were took combs and made parting and poured oil on length of hair and massaged it in hair. While oiling the maids asked me if I stopped loving long oiled hair and hair play. Mother kept pouring oil and maids were massaging.it in hair. Soon both made a double choti which Mother wanted and then coated the choti with handful of jasmine oil. Mother took bobby pins and put three on each side and Geeta got kaajal and put it under eyes. They all hugged me and said today whole day they will oil hair and do hair play.
More to follow…
What do u think Pooja ? Any suggestions ? I haven't got any hair accessories as of yet just the old clips and pins. Now I am going to need Sumit
Oh that’s so sad Sumit that you were not able to oil your hair regularly. Hair get really rough and unmanageable if you don’t keep them oiled. Now with everyone so happy to have you back in their oiling group I am sure it will get all the nourishment again. Sounds like a cute scene their welcome back for you. You better go and buy hair accessories over the weekend. You will need thin bands for the end if your braids, a thick buckle, bobby pins, u pins, coloured clips to match your attire and coloured scrunchie bands for high ponies and sometimes when you want to keep your hair open it would be nice to get a decorated hair band too. Enjoy sleek oily shiny hair with all these accessories to try out. I bet it will be a fun weekend
DeleteHi Pooja, whats a good hair style with Churidhar? Will update you later. Will but all as you requested.
ReplyDeleteHair oiled well into a tight and shiny French braid or a bun with a stick in between is trendy.
DeleteHello Pooja,
ReplyDeleteToday Saturday, I washed my hair in morning and kept it dry. I told Mother going out and be back later in evening. At market bought all as u requested. Bobby pins are only ones black, while everything else is color even u pins. Picked up several scrunchies and head bands, hair clips and buckles.I also got couple of containers of Parachute oil., castor oil and aloe Vera gel. Also got Vatika Jasmine oil. When I reached home mother was watching TV and maids were going house work. Mother had her hair tied in a oiled bun. I told all three to sit together. I told them I am very sorry I have not oiled my hair. showed them all I bought. They were happy and surprised. I told them to make mixture of coconut, and castor oil and aloe Vera and apply to hair at regular intervals. And fish braid and oiled bun wirh stick for style and they can dress me anyway they want. Mother said today just apply coconut oil and on Sunday mixture to be applied. Then she asked me why these two hair style I said my friend suggested with Churidhar. She smiled and told maids to oil my hair and tommorrow pamper him all oiling three days straight and no washing of hair. What do u thi k Pooja? Any suggestions.
Dear Sumit, You are having great time with oiling ritual. I think heavy oiling everyday without washing is not good for scalp. It will block pores. After heavy oiling you must wash hair with herbal shampoo and remove oil completely and may be after drying hair again apply hair oil. I think 3 days oiling is not good idea.
ReplyDeleteHi Pooja and Priyam,
ReplyDeleteThanks Priyam for suggestion. I did wash hair on Sunday morning, but after that Mother wants three days of oiling. She wants my hair to be heavily oiled and styled. On Saturday evening all three of them had same hairstyle tied in three knots and rest open like a half choti. They kept choti in front, then Mother said after oiling same hairstyle for me. Geeta went in kitchen to warm oil while Malti took me to kitchen too. I sat on floor in front of Malti. She sat on stool then lovingly made me sit on her lap. She put her open choti in front of me. She said Mother always make me sit on her lap and then plays with my hair and do oiling. Now they want to do the same to me. Shanti untied my hair and gently stroked it and did hairplay. Geeta stood in front of me with bowl of oil and poured some coconut oil on middle parting and started massaging head. She said would love to style hair with all the hair stuff I got from market. Shanti was oiling length of hair. After some time Geeta sat on stool and made me sit on her lap and she nicely combed oiled hair and made half choti hair style like them. Shanti took some more castor oil and coated my head with it to have shiny look They said on morning they will style my hair in fish braid and evening bun with stick. Soon Mother called me and she was watching TV. She made me sit on her lap and she did hair play with my half choti. She would stroke my head and say oiled look is best for me and she would like me to wear Churidhar on Monday.
Hi Priyank here,
ReplyDeleteCan you post the video of a men getting
His hair oiled by a same lady with 100 ml of oil.
Hi Pooja,
ReplyDeleteHope u are doing well and oiling regularly. Been traveling a lot so unable to post. Again due to that unable to do regular oiling. This weekend after long time got to be home so mother was very happy as now she would be oil my hair with help of maids. On Friday as I was home mother told Geeta to make a paste of amla powder mixed with water and castor oil. She was sitting in front of dressing table while Malti was standing behind her combing her hair. She made me sit on her lap and started checking my hair. As she ran her fingers she said hair is very rough and she will do champi with warm coconut oil.and then coat my hair with castor oil. but first she will apply amla paste to hair and Malti touched my hair and said she will oil also on afternoon and night as my hair needs nourishment and has become dry. Then mother made me sit between her legs and she open my hair and started combing. By now Geeta came with paste. Mother lovingly applied generous amount of paste and made a bun. My hair was totally wrapped in paste. Then Mother told Geeta to wash my hair after 30 mins and dry it and then bring me back to room. Soon all 3 ladies indulged in small talk. Malti by now was oiling mother's hair and she told me that since I travel so much it's about time I married so someone can take care of me. Mother smiled and said she was thinking the same thing and there is a certain lady who she know would make nice wife to me. I am a bit surprised and mother said soon she will takee to meet her.
Both maids then tease me. What do you think Pooja ?
I am not sure what to do.
Hair oiling is actually bad for the hair and attracts dirt and bacteria. This causes acne and scalp infections.
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